Omggg

i wrote before about how i was in love with this 32 year old guy (im 15 in 20 days) and all that shit... blah blah blah... well forget that... i met this kid andrew at the bowling alley and started to go out wit him on may 7th, and hes 16 and then to...

make a long story short, this guy freddy came along. at first i thought he was creepy, then i got to know he and i fell in love with him, and he fell in love with me, and of course me with the older guys, hes 25. now i got to see him today, and i kinda made out with him... feeling bad, i told andrew we shouldnt go out anymore, and i really DONT love andrew, i mean i do but not like that, i told him this online and he just said whatever i have to go and signed off... i dont think hes gonna be ok... of course freddys happy, but i dont know... did i do the right thing... b/c i love freddy more than anything... and i just dont love andrew... i dont know what to do... someone help me please!!!

ok first of all....how can u believe a guy who is so much older than u...he says he loves u but be careful maybe he just wants to get under ur skirt..right now u may be thinking who the hell is this person telling me this guy doesn;t love me...u are young and u have so much life infront of u...don;t do the mistake and fall for the games older guys play...how will he serious with a 15 year old come on he is 25...HE'S A MAN! men wants things....use ur head and think straight or u may have to suffer the consequences...i'm not saying to break up with him coz i cant decide that for u but my advice is to use ur head and dont be blinded by hm or taken in by his sweet talk coz guys will do anything to get what they want..and as for andrew...well he won;t be over it that easy but he is hurt and his reaction proves it..i think u should have told him in person that way he could see exactly how u feel...think straight and use ur head!

First of all... both the 35 yr old and the 25 yr old could get into BIG trouble. Any sexual relations between them and a minor(you) is ILLEGAL. It's called statutory rape.

But I love him and he loves me -It doesn't matter HE is suppose to know better. He is taking advantage of you whether you realize it or not. There's is obviously something wrong if this much older man cannot date women his own age and has to go after young girls.

Go with the 16 yr old. If this Freddy guy loves you so much, he can wait another 3 or 4 years to date you. Until you're 18 you should only date other minors. But after that... you can screw a 65 yr old if you want!

(If I were you, I would seriously consider going to the police about BOTH of these men. They sound like child molestors to me.)

Firstly i dont see how you can be sure that you are in love with someone when your only 15. Also every girl usually finds an older guy really attractive when they are in their teens. I dont think you actually mean you love him. I think you have a crush and i think hes wrong being with you. Im not saying he is a bad guy but i think you should get out of the relationship as soon as possible because the longer you leave it the harder it going to be and belive me i a couple of weeks you will realise you dont actually like him and it was all psychological. You will be suprised at the amount of girls that are your age and experiancing these types of feelings, however some of them get hurt because sadly the guys they get with take advantage of them!
Hope this has been helpful even though it sounds like im just being harsh!!

WOW.I think you've got yourself in real big trouble here. Why isn't he going for girls his age? It's obvious he want to take advantage of you ( sorry ppl i sorta to0k you ideas but I just want to tell her how i feel!) because he knows ur a minor u will do anything for him to like you. He is a freak! GEt the POlice! Immediately!
Or if you aren't ready for that, Talk to an adult you trust! and they will go to the police for you! I know I'm really late! lol It's like November, but I hope you have taken action already!

I am 14, and my sister(who was 16 at the time) got into a mess like that. She went out with a 20 year-old, and the next thing we kno shes pregnaut, and the 20 year old runs away. It isnt like my sister wanted a baby, (when eva my mom was like, kenna dont reck ur future by gettin pregnaut! kenna wud say, MOM! That would never happen to me!), but if he asks you to have sex...it is hard to say no! Espeacially if you want to please him!

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your hurry to grow up and get laid will get you no end of disappointment with yourself. you will end up with no graduation credentials, no self- respect and no future.

the dating should be something on the side with schoolwork being your first focus. while it is flattering to be with older fellows,

do you not ask yourself what they see in you? you arent finished developing. they dont have your better interests in mind. they just want in your pants because you are likely cute and you are getting all excited about them and they are flattered. tone back on the teasing and flirting with guys and get back to hitting the books.