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Omg im soo scared ?? please help!!

My cat, Dopey Asked by kittyluck 7 months ago, 9 answers.

I know you guys are sick and tired of hearing all this pregnancy question... but I was forced to have sex I really didnt wanted to but I couldnt do anything about it anyways its been like 3 or 4 weeks after that I tooked a pregnancy test like the 7 day...

that happened and it came out negatvie soo I thought I was not pregnant and I was happy... but then last weekend I felt sick and my breast were really sore soo I thought I should take another pregnancy test because I also was soppose to have my peroid but like now I am about a week late... soo I tooked another pregancy test and it came out postive... can I really be pregnant I am only 14 years old... my mom dont know nothing at all what had happening to me some of my mental health worker knows what happened but dont know that I can be pregnant or is. and if my mom know she would just have a to go to the hospital... sooo please any advice on what should I do???

:] Answered by sneakykaykay on Apr 08, 2009, 06:20PM
364 answers

I think you shuld tell your mom you were forced and please DO NOT KILL THE POOR
BABY!! abortion is the most HORRIBLE thing you can possibly do!!
its just AS SAME as stabbing an adult to death thy are JUST AS IMPORTANT..
my friend was in the same situation a year ago.. she decided to have the baby and give it to a family that would cherish it and love it with all thyre hearts happy
I hope I helpd 3

My new haircut 8-27-2009 Answered by 91jchevy87ec on Apr 08, 2009, 06:21PM
2665 answers

That's called rape first off. Not sure if you knew. You are going to have to go to a hospital and get checked, and your mom is going to have to be notified, as well as the appropriate authorities. That SOB should go to jail! Yes you can be pregnant; there ARE 14 year olds that get pregnant. Just get help.

me and my boyfreind :] Answered by jazlovestoskate on Apr 08, 2009, 06:21PM
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if you were forced to have sex you were raped
what the person did to you was illegal
and you need to tell your parents and/or a doctor about thius
if you remember who did it you need to also tell the police so they can stop him from doing it again
you can get pregnant at almost any age, as long as your ovulating
and youd need to take a pregnancy test 2-3 weeks after having sex
(any sooner and the results wont be accurate)
which is whay it came out negative the first time
tell your mum, she wont kill you
and she want to help you throught this
tell the police about the sick guy and what he did
try to describe hima s best you can
and remember that what happened is not your fault
its his

Jasmine You (Versailles ~Phlharmonic Quintet~) Answered by yumiyukai on Apr 08, 2009, 06:22PM
2513 answers

you really should tell your mom. if you were forced to have sex, that was rape. you should have done something as soon as you could. tell your mother!! it was not your fault so she can't be mad at you!! right now it's the best thing you can do.

Answered by amblessed on Apr 08, 2009, 06:26PM
12243 answers

Against your will is Rape - you need to be checked at the Hospital and your Mother told - she loves you and you MUST have support !!

Rape Support: 1-800-656-HOPE or 1-800-656-4673

What to do:

http://www.mamashealth.com/abuse/rapehelp.asp

http://www.sexlaws.org/what_is_statutory_rape

http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sexuallyactive/a/statutoryrape1.htm

If you need someone to just listen, just talk to, or pray with you:

24 hrs: 1-800-488-4673

You're in my thoughts and prayers.

moonlight witches Answered by emogall100 on Apr 08, 2009, 06:43PM
170 answers

you should tell someone you were raped. also if you are pregnat it is your choice wether to have an abortion,do adoption or keep the baby, its no one elses choice. good luck hun happy

Answered by lkazmark1 on Apr 08, 2009, 06:56PM

Hello, I am so sorry that you are so scared. You have to tell your mom. She will be stronger than you think. I hope that you will let her know so that she can help you make the right decision for you. Do you have a counselor at school? You can talk to her and she can help you decide how to tell your mom. Some counselors ould even be there when you share the news. If you have a male counselor then try and find a female teacher that you feel you can talk to. There are people who can help you. Just look around you. Good luck and let us know how you are.

me lol Answered by jessibby255 on Apr 09, 2009, 02:35PM
84 answers

honey the only advice I can give you is, if you think you are then make an appointment at your doctor and get a friend to take you. they can NOT! tell your parents only if you want them to. and they will give you a free pregnancy test, and darlin the next time you have sex please be careful.

hearts (-: Answered by hannahjoy13 on May 04, 2009, 10:36AM
127 answers

tell yoour mum.. she will understand that you wer raped
so she will understand..
after you have has sex youu are ment to take a test 2 weeks after
that why it was negative (as that was only a week)

tell yoour mum + ask her to call police that is really sick/bad of that guy who did that to you and he needs to be punished..

ii think youu should not have an abortion cus its killing another child to this earth but its totally up to youu hun..

- abortion
- keep ?
- adoption ?

hope this works out for youu x

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