Is it wrong for us to be together?

I am 16 and im dating a 29 year old. I really love him. we started as freinds with benefits and now im in love with him. he love me too. but he has 4children that are all girls and 1 baby mama. do you think this is wrong? I really like him and im with him basically all day everyday. sould I leave him alone or should I stay. I know I should stop but its hard because I love him. he takes care of me and helps me a lot in all ways. he is very caring and loving and he is all I ever wanted. now he is talking about proposing to me and I met the family and everything. PLEASE HELP

WRONG, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong on so many levels. You absolutely HAVE to get out of this relationship. He could (and should) go to jail for this. He is double your age practically. No good can come from this, and any man that wants to date a young girl has serious issues. What does your parents think of this? You met his family and they are fine with him proposing? This just keeps getting weirder and weirder. If you don't want to end up on Jerry Springer, I suggest you take a step back, and look at this logically with your brain and not your heart. You don't want to end up with his 5th baby do you? The other 4 come first financially, so yeah...Good luck, seriously.

You obvisouly find some wrong in the whole situation if you are asking funadvice about it. Correct or incorrect?

ghettoprincess09,
This is absoulty wrong. To start with, the whole age thing is wrong. Thats not even legal, you aren't adult enough to be dating someone that much older then you. You are 16-years-old and your down with the whole 'friends with benefits' thats so wrong, at any age. Why would you want someone that doesn't love you to be touching you like that or anything. Thats not okay. You may say you love him, and that he loves you. Thats not true and deep inside you know its not. He has FOUR kids, that should be a screaming sign to you that hes not the type of person you should be in a relationship with. You need to get out of this relationship right now and let him go back to his babys mama. He probley doesn't even pay child support or anything, he just left her to take care of 4 kids all by herself. Doesn't that tell you something? Irrisponsible? I think so. His family should be ashamed of him for dating a 16-year-old to, thats just not right. Hes rushing things way to quickly anyways, do you want to end up like his babys mama, with 4 kids on your arms and him leaving you? You need to keep your head up, wait for someone special and date someone your own age. And you need to drop the whole 'friends with benefits' deal. I know you like the attention you are getting from him, but hun its not worth it, please do this for yourself and leave him right now.
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I can't believe he's actually introduced you to anyone. He could go to jail. You're a minor, he's an adult which makes sexual relations between you illegal. It's called statutory rape. He's an adult and should know better.

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Sika

before you people put this guy in jail as a pedofile, first ask this girl if see lied about her age. Its possible that she told him that she is 18, its actually more than possible because she claims she loves him & people lie in the name of 'love' (or what they think is love) all the time, which is sad because he still goes 2 jail if the truth comes out.

But lets just say he knows & you 2 dont get caught why the hell would you want to be the stepmother of 4 kids ( 1 of them whose probably within 5 years of your age) anyway. your relationship with their mother wont be good because she wont want her kids around their because of his rather sick choice 2 date & marry someone underage. The Kids may or may not like you its like a 40-60 chance, but if they dont it will be because they dont respect you because your NOT THEIR ELDER, you are their age. why woud you subject your self 2 all this tumoil just 4 some F**k buddy that you think you caught feelings 4???

Take a step back and look at the situation.

You are still young. You are 16! When you are barely 26 he will be in his forties...

Why would any grown adult want to really have a serious relationship with a 16 year old? Do you really think that is right? Obviously you see something wrong with it or you wouldnt be here asking if its wrong.

He comes with attachments... (4 KIDS).. You are too young for all of this.. Yous still have plenty of years to go out with your friends and have fun... and meet guys YOUR age!

It really sounds like you are being manipulated...

stick with someone under your age therefor it wouldnt be an problem

are you a crazy. I think a lot on this sitee are out of there mind. this is so wrong.