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Oh my, I've been through that exact thing.
And do you know what? I didn't tell him till ~5 years later and know what he said?
He said "I wish you had of told me that then because I was in love with you too". I was in such shock because he liked another girl and I just... I couldn't find it in me to tell him. We are two totally different people now but I still wish I had of told him becuase I think we could have had something.
My point - I think you should tell him before it's too late, he might feel the same way even though he may like someone else, if you don't tell him, you'll regret it.
Trust me on this. 
Er yeah, I have a story like this too. But in my situation, I was looking for a boyfriend but the thought never crossed my mind that I could be with him, because he was in a relationship when I met him (but broke up with that girl sometime after). Anyway if it did cross my mind, I would have asked him out or something.
But anyway, a couple of years later I got into a relationship with a great guy, and moved to another state to be with him. Before my flight departure, I was texting goodbye to all my friends, including my close friend. He asked me why I was leaving, and I said that I was moving to be with my boyfriend.
He then said he was sad to see me go, and I was sad to leave too (but obviously, also happy) and I wouldn't be leaving if I had a boyfriend in our city. Then he texted me back something along the lines of "Dummy, you could have gone out with me!" lol.
So there you go - the thought has probably never crossed your friend's mind, and/or he probably wants to be with you just as much as you do with him.
Well I'm going through the same thing right now except in a different way, and trust me in my situation it's very difficult. But the best thing for you to do is to tell him how you really feel TRUST me it will make a difference even if it's good or bad, but the best thing for you to do is tell him how you feel. Trust I wish I could go back and tell my best guy friend that a LONG time ago, and he even told me the same thing, and if I had we would be together right now. So JUST DO IT
Oh girl, I know how that is!! My best friend was the captain of the wrestling team and I had always thought he was really attractive and I developed a crush on him and then was slowly falling in love with him, I didn't know what to do because we got along so great and I didn't want to ruin our friendship or make it awkward. Plus how could such a good looking guy with a great body like a girl like me, I am 5'7 215 but people tell me I am pretty. I was so scared and I finally got up the nerve to tell him but then he was dating someone else. I was so hurt even though he wasn't my boyfriend. But lucky for me they broke up about a month after and I was patient. I finally told him how I felt and I was so amazed that he like me too!! He was also scared about ruining things so he was happy I told him. It turns out not all guys only want the twig thin "hot girl" he fell in love with my personality and the fact that I can get along sometimes like another one of the guys.
Now it's a year later and we are freshman in college together and so in love. Having him be my best friend first is so perfect. I already knew him so well before we started our relationship and thats really helped make us stronger.
Best friends = the best boyfriends.
SO TAKE A CHANCE!! If you never tell him you will always wonder what could have happened and regret is not a good feeling!!
YOU CAN DO IT!!



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Well Im in love with my best friend! And I cant tell him because I know he doesnt like me like that and I know that he likes someone else but its just my emotions, like sometimes I just feel like telling him I love him and today when he hugged me goodbye my lips accidentally touched his chest and I lightly kissed him but he didnt realise thank gosh!! But its really hard to keep these feeling hidden! please help me!!