What if I can't get my ex off my mind?

I have been married for 20 years and my marriage is in trouble for long time now, recently my ex from 23 years had a tragic death in the family and I went to the viewing as I am still friendly with his family,as it turns out he is separated and I have not been able to get him off my mind....?

You are still married first off so thats what you need to remember! even though your marriage is on tha rocks you are still in it and you made vows before god. Also, if you are still there.. you are not ready to leave and give up on your marriage. You and your husband may need to go see a counselor if you haven't already done that. Its normal to have feelings for your ex sometimes with reuniting those feelings come intact but you don't act on them. Your relationship didn't work for whatever reason and he is a ex-boyfriend for a reason. God puts people in our lives for reasons.

You are still married first off so thats what you need to remember! even though your marriage is on tha rocks you are still in it and you made vows before god. Also, if you are still there.. you are not ready to leave and give up on your marriage. You and your husband may need to go see a counselor if you haven't already done that. Its normal to have feelings for your ex sometimes with reuniting those feelings come intact but you don't act on them. Your relationship didn't work for whatever reason and he is a ex-boyfriend for a reason. God puts people in our lives for reasons.

just wait a while and he will get off your mind sooner or later but if your love is that deep you will probably be scarred 4 ever or you will have to wait atleast 4 months to get him out of your system