Good techniques for handjobs and blowjobs?

so I just gave my first handjob and blowjob this weekend
and I have a few questions

1. what are some good teqniques(sp) for blowjobs and handjobs to make it more enjoyable for guys?

2. does it mean you are ready for those two things when you do them, and your not thinking" omg omg omg im doing it wrong?" because to me, it didnt feel like I was scared, almost like I was ready

3. I also got fingered this weekend. it hurt the first time, but when I wasnt horny, it kinda hurt a little, is that normal?

thanks for the help.

1. The best way to make it enjoyable for him is for you to enjoy it. There is nothing better than enthusiasm. Make eye contact. Alternate speed and rythm. dont just suck, lick and kiss it too.

2. Yes. If you are relaxed enough with each other not to be panicking then I would say your ready.

3. If you weren't horny then you probably weren't naturally lubricated (wet). Dont worry about that. Its normal.

Have fun

I've learned a few new tricks but they are top secret but yeah massage him first.

Ok I'll tell the top secret trick that should make him pop his top.

1. start standing facing him, kiss
2. Slowly move down to a kneeing position (he should be standing)
3. face his crotch and slowly unzip his fly (slowly) then the button
4. by now he should be hard and ready.
5. slowly remove his c*ck from his boxers
6. from there jerk him off and slip you mouth around this head
7. you should know the next steps
The key to a great Blow job is slow and h*rney full then quick and hot, finally fast and orgasmic.

Hope that helps.

I can give you some advice If you want you can contact me ( I`m not jokig abt this),,,