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I just found out that I'm pregnant. I've been pregnant befoe but im not dating this guy and I just need to know how to tell him. I want to come out and say it but I need to know what to say help me.

Firstly, you need to decide wheather you are going to keep the baby or have an abortion. You are only 16, so I would assume that you are still in high school. No one is ready to raise a baby at the age of 16, due to school. With telling the father of the baby that you are pregnant, just be very clear and straight foward about the pregnancy. Just invite him to a small little cafe in your town/city and tell him that you are pregnant with his child. You could try saying, " I have just been to my doctors and found out that I am pregnant with your baby". Be clear and direct about the situation. You might want to discuss your options with him and a trusted adult. If you are not happy about having an abortion, you can put the baby up for adoption. Also, you might want to bring a close friend with you, when you tell him for some moral support. Be prepared for his reaction, as he might be surprised about the pregnancy. Remember, it is your choice to wheather you raise the baby or not. My girlfriend and I are 17 years old and I we have just started having sex. My girlfriend is on the pill, so maybe you should consider going on some birth control pills. We have only had sex once and we used a condom. So remember, that condoms are the key. Always use them to protect your health and prevent pregnancy. If you need more advice email me at; Fun mail me

please dont even consider abortion..I'm not trying to make you feel bad but what they do to that innocent child its disgusting..thats bs about being to young..age dsn't determine if your a good mom or not its just if your ready to settle down and take responsibilty..I had my 1st baby at 14 and then 17..u can do it..if not their is people out there who'd give their live to have a child..

when it comes to telling him you just need to be honest with him..if he's young to then he's going to be scared and not sure what to do..when I told the guy I was pregnant he was upset even said it wasn't his but I knew it was..I called him over to my house and I just handed him the preg test and he said whats this and I just told him we're going to have a baby..if he does act that way dsn't mean he won't be there..my guy dd't talk to me the whole time..his mom made us get a dna testing..I'm 25 now and we've been married for 6 years..I never would have thought that would've happened..so you hang there and hope for the best..if it dsn't work out with him your still going to have the most precious gift ever..your baby..I'll tell you the honest to God truth..I went to college I'm a cpa..I have so much in life that I accomplished but out of all that the most rewarding thing in my life are my kids..u have your baby and you just love it..the love you feel your child is something I could never put into words and to have someone love you so much..your baby dsn't care what u've done..I still get tears in my eyes just talking about it..please dont punish your baby b/c of a mistake you made..if you need anything you can e-mail at Fun mail me...dn't worry I'll never judge you no matter what you decide..good luck