Can you help me since I'm in love with my ex?

ok so me and this guy dated for alil over a month it was ah-mazing he was a great boyfriend and I was a good girlfriend to him too but than this girl he just happend to bring up one time about liking last year but he didnt and e more..so and e ways one day I found out she was calling him all the time to get a ride home when she infact had her own license so I wasent to happy than he could tell that I wasent to happy so he skiped his practice and tock me home and stayed with me for a while and we were happy and it was good but I was deff alil tense because shes older than me and more experianced and skinnyier so I was alil tense than after we hung out @ my house he went to the part of practice he had to b @ than we went to his house and we did stuff and w.e and for the first time he left a hicky on me which I thought was pretty cool ofcourse lol than the next day was ok and he told me he loved me and everything than later that night he sent a *text message* telling me he was stressed and didnt want a serious thing rite than but yet every1 knowes it was for that slut but they didnt date ofcourse the were just f buddies and now..he hasent said more than 2 words to me scence the text message and he apperintly has 2 little nasty buddies but and e ways...I still love him after al the pain and all the shyt he put me through even tho hes not the most attractive or ah-mazing guy..he is to me and it hurts me that he would leave me for sumthing so grose but I don't know I just love him but dont k now what todo I like other guys but not @ all like I feel for him..

You need to get over him. Its going to take time of course but you don't want that kind of guy in your life. Some guys are just jerks that way, if he has f**k buddies then that shows hes not mature. Everything he did to make you think he was amazing, was an act, and it worked. Next time I suggest you get to know someone a bit more better before you date them, you will have less chance of running into this problem again. Theres no way a guy like that can handle a relationship. He just said he loved you and stuff because he didn't want to hurt you. Hes playing stupid, don't be blind about it. If he ever does come back to you its probley just to get in your pants. He's trying to look 'cool' for his buddies, having sex with all these girls. He feels good about it. But honestly, you don't need that in your life. If you had sex with him you should go get checked for STD's even if you used protection. Because if he is f**king all these people now, he probley was when you were dating too. Even if you have no symtoms of STD's, please, get checked. Because sometimes you dont know till its to late.

yea well I guess I should havv got to know him better but I don't know it was just so easy to fall for him when he was the one who noticed me I loved it im ushually the one who notices the guys but he noticed me but and e ways your rite but I did not have sex with even if I did he had only had sex with 1 person before and he nvr had a chance to b with someone else I need a lot of attention and I dont let them get to far lol

Just because he said he only slept with 1 person doesn't mean its true. He doesn't sound like a very trustworthy person, sounds like balonie to me.

One month is hardly long enough to get so attached to someone. Sounds like he just wants sex without the commitment!

well he didnt get that soo I don't know

u need to get over him and start going after other guys! that slut is prob just triing to get a rep as a slut! you dont need him. but if you cant 4get about him you can try being realy nice to him and when he comes around you can ask him what went wrong!

well I did but he didnt answer but apperintly I didnt do and e thing either he apperintly rather b with "hoebag hannah" as every 1 calls her lol but yea its hard for me to get over him its ben like over 3months and I stil miss him it just suxs
thanxs for responding : ]

Its hard to follow your thread because of the spelling & grammar. But this is what I've gathered...

***it hurts me that he would leave me for sumthing so grose but I don't know I just love him but dont k now what todo I like other guys but not @ all like I feel for him..***

So... he dumped you, so he could have sex with another girl. If this is true, then you have no business wasting your emotions on such a prick.

Move on... raise your standards...