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I like this guy. & he likes me. he's coming over sometime this week. we've never even made out . should I let him finger me?

Sure!

Hmph..How well do you know this guy? Do you trust him? How old are you? That's all up to you. If it were me, hell no. You sound pretty young based on this question..My advice would to not do anything, but if you trust him, and it's something you want done, go for it.

It is up to you. It you feel that you are ready to do something like that, then go for it. If you don't think you are ready don't do it, and don't let him pressure you into anything!

~Tiffany~

HELL NO your QUESTION MAKES you SOUND PRETTY YOU,BY THE WAY HAVE you EVER EXPRESSED YOUR FEELING TO THIS GUY IN AN INTIMATE WAY, OR HAVE HE EVER DONE IT? IF your ANSWER IS NO LET IT REMAINS AS "WE HAVEN'T EVEN MADE OUT" AND MAYBE HE DOESN'T EVEN LIKE YOU THAT MUCH AND PROBABLY LOOKS AT you AS SOME CHEAP ASS HE WANTS TO TAP. AND AGAIN IF IT WAS ME I WOULDN'T EVEN INVITE HIM OVER MUCH MORE LET HIM FINGER MY THATS CRAZY TALK BUT GOOD LUCK HOPE YOU MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION

By your question it seems that you arent sure what to do yourself.My acvice is if you are unsure of something you shud not go ahead with it.Otherwise you will just regret it later on. Do not do something just because you think it is what he wants, but do it if it is what YOU want and if it feels right. Dont make the mistake of thinking that if you do something sexual that it will make you closer to him.

you havent even made out yet! take things slow and go with the flow, if you feel comfortable and can trust him then its up to you, but if you get the feeling he is only after one thing I dont think you should let him do anything!