What have I gotten myself into?

Hello how are ya ? well goss there isnt much I can fill you in with but I havent seen nic since the last time we spoke but interesting enough some random added me and his mate had a pic of my ex and this chick on his myspace how that happened no idea lets just say MYSPACE is a small space. Anyways cause you are the right hand women I thought I would throw this by you.. 1stly over the weekend his mate asked me out and 2nd I have this gut feeling that I want to message nic and just say hi and hoping he is well.. is this my gut telling me go for it or am I just a weakling hahahah its werid my horoscope yesterday said contact that someone special and ask them out for a coffee thats EXACTLY WHAT I WAS FEELING at that point... anyways back to hos mate yeah apparently I am the girl of his dreams and when I am ready I should let him know.. he went on about how he wouldnt ask me if he didnt mean it ... anyways now it kinda makes sense remeber when I went to nic place to get my things and he went on about there are things I have been hearing that I dont want to hear about you... hmmm maybe that was it I dunno you see things in a better light than me thats why I always come to you for this kind of advice .. what should I do you know what position I am in if there was a geniue my 3 wishes would be for me and nic to be back together

Ok thanks for the compliment hun and you can come to me at any time.

Now if you want nick, going out with his mate will ruin that chance for you. He will feel betrayed and hurt, go out with any other guy if you have to but not someone he nos becos that would tear him up. Now if it has been a while, you are becomming weak in wondering how he is, if you want to continue to look like the strong one and dont want to cave in then id say dont text him. But if you dont care about that stuff and just want to see how he is doing then text him and see how he is, but be prepared that he may just ignore you so dont get your hopes up and dont come on to strong if he does reply and want to see you. It just all depends on the situation.