Afraid my parents will find out I had sex

I had sex with my boyfriend and it was gr8 and I am scared my parents will find out!!! thts one day they may take me to the gynecologist and then they will find out.. I also want to ask a few questions from a doctor but I wan too go alone I don't want to go wiht my mum but I live in bangladesh at the moment it sucks over here it is dangerous to go any where alone and the doctors are not good I don't know what to do!!!???

Start by using some kind of protection (ex.: condoms). You can buy most anything at the pharmacy in Bangladesh (at least last time I was there...you didn't need a prescription) so if you need a pregnancy test, condoms or something else go there.

As for the hymen being torn, you could have torn it without having sex (there is NO way to prove you had sex). Otherwise, you can get it reconstructed surgically (but only if desperate times call for desperate measures) This procedure costs money and means you'd have to see a doctor.

Last but not least, go see a doctor either with your boyfriend or some other friend. You can try calling the American, Canadian or British embassies to find out what doctors they recommend to the foreigners (usually trustworthy but expensive).

you dont say how old you are but...
did you use protection?
are you on any form of birth control?
if you answered no to both of those you could very well be pregnant
and a.lo at risk of having an sti/std
you should be able to go to the doctors alone and talk to them about it
also you could always talk to your mum about it
shes had sex (obviosly...to make you) so she should know about it and be able to offer you help and support/advice
but depending on how old you are, she probably doesnt want to know about her daughter 'growing up" so fast
however, if your going to start having sex you need to know all the facts
especially about these 4 things
pregnancy, sti/stds, birth control and contraception
you should learn about how they can happen, how you get them, what happens, how to get rid of it, symptoms, types of, side effects, ect
since you have the internet you can find websites that will offer you a great deal of information about them as well

If your possibly pregnant then I don't know wht to tell you but on the part about the gynecologist I could give you sme advice. you can say that you ripped your hymen in accident with your tampon, or during a sport. Horseback riding can also cause it to break. If you do any of those things then use one as an excuse if not you can say you tried mas*urbat*ng and you tried it with two fingers which caused your hymen to break. But don't worry about it so much or u'll freak when it happens. you want to be totally calm about it. If this was helpful please tell me so if not then I'm srry bt I tried.

hmm.. That's tough. In America doctors can't tell your parents anything unless you say they can. I dont know how it is over there with the doctors and confidentiality but condoms are the simplest protection. If youre old enough I guess you could see a doctor by yourself. I'm not sure if that was any help but I dont know too much about the situation. Sorry. Hope I helped a little. Go online and research STDs and pregnancy and how to prevent both. You could also talk to your mom if she's ok with you having sex but chances are she might not want to know. Talking to your friends helps too. Just make sure you get valid information and not some sex-myth and make sure you know that they're good sources, you dont want to believe some stupid stuff a 10year old might blog about or something. The best advice is to be well informed.

Stop having sex until you get the answers your looking for!

Go with your boyfriend?