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Oh dang.!

Asked by ash07 about 1 year ago, 4 answers.

Ok so I had a boyfriend and I really liked him a lot...but I broke up with him because it was a long distance thing and I hated not being able to see him.! But I found out a couple weeks ago that hes staying here.! But the thing is I've become best...

friends with this girl that he dated like 3 years ago and she fell in love with him. She still loves him but he doesnt even like her. I really like him and I want to go out again but I dont want to because of her.! Is it ok to go out with him again since I was going out with him before I was even friends with her or is it still not ok.? She says she doesnt care what I do because im her best friend and shes always going to be by my side. But I dont want to hurt her. She also says she doesnt care for him anymore but I can tell that she does.! Omg what do I do.? Please help.! Thanks. =)

Answered by mysterywolf on Sep 08, 2008, 10:49PM
2667 answers

Well, if he doesn't like her, there's not much she can do even if she wants him.

I don't know how you broke up with your ex, but I hope you explained to him that it was because of the 'long distance' thing or something to that effect (because he would've said that he was staying close by if you had). I don't understand how you think that you two were in a long distance thing in the first place though. But anyway, if you explained to him the situation, he might take you back again. Depends on how hurt he was and how you talked through the break-up with him.

Answered by captainassassin on Sep 08, 2008, 10:54PM
6184 answers

***Well, if he doesn't like her, there's not much she can do even if she wants him.***

True... but teenage rules... it WILL cause problems with the friend, if ash starts seeing the guy again.

Answered by zhen02 on Sep 08, 2008, 11:20PM
44 answers

I love to answer these kind of questions...
well in my opinion...you can go out with him..your bestfriend will understand you...if you love the guy then go!!..I'm sure your bestfriend will also be happy if you are happy..ryt??