Obsessed or in love?

okay well I've been going out with this boy for almost 5 months and lately hes been changing choosing his friends over me. I know people told me that its just a guy thing and I accepted that but its just that im scared of loosing him because im getting...

to a attatched and im showing my feelings to much and im scared thats a way im going to lose him. Im sure im in love with him and just to make sure I dont loose him im trying to show my feelings les but I cant holdit in its just so confusing. Also I dont know if I can trust him I mean I can but its like I dont trust the girls, they can be very seducing and I dont like sharing him with anyone else alsoi dont like it when he talks about other girls infront of me am I obssessed? Another thing everytime I cry he just seems not to care, I cry because I love him to much, he is my first love, and I just dont know what to do I talked to my parents but they just say its a fase... and this is the longest realtionship I have ever had... !!!PLEASE HELP!!!

Yes, it is obsession. Everyone should have friends, not only love/lover.
Instead of your everytime crying, you should also have some friends.

I think you are in love,but you are insecure too,you need to work on that because its unattractive to most people,try spending more time with your friends,family,on hobbies,etc that should help him feel less pressured,best wishes