Why am I obsessed with my enemy?

ok, I had this friend. and she turned all emo/goth and she started to hate me for know reason. now I like always look at her myspace to see what she has been doing. and I am emo 2, but not because of her. (emo isnt really a choice) and she is doin fine without me. but. I hate her. why do I always want to know what shes doing?

Dear wotty77,
You probably want to know what she is doing because you didn't have closure on your friendship. You stated she hates you for no reason...well that isn't true she has a reason and you don't know it...that's why you are always interested in what she is doing. The best way to get over this is to either find out from her what happened or stop going to sites you know she's at.
Sue...good luck

bcause from hate comes love

you want to know whats going on in her life cause you care about her.
seriously talk to her and try to find out what happened.