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Asked by wesley_butcher 10 months ago, 5 answers.

my girlfriend is being abused by her dad she has practically admited that he hhas sex with her but doesnt admit it to me I love her to pieces and want to honer what she says but I cant not tell someone she only 15 and im 17 she has the mental ages of an...

18 year old but even when I go to kiss her she looks scared like she thinks im her dad.
I cant beat her dad up that wud meen jail for me
I cant tell no1 because she will h8 me

im trying to make her call the police but she wont?

PLEASE HELP

Answered by atomicreload on Jan 04, 2009, 02:27PM
284 answers

She won't call the police, then YOU DO. She will think of you as GOD if you help her. Hold on I have a longer answer coming so don't leave.

Answered by love_n_hate on Jan 04, 2009, 02:28PM
153 answers

Yea you need to tell somone, because things will only get worse for her otherwise. Do it because you care if she hates you for it then let her hate you but atleast you will be saving her from somthing horrible. I know a few people that that has happend to and its f**ked up there whole life so dont let it keep happending to her.

Answered by ashlan_15 on Jan 04, 2009, 02:32PM
6 answers

Tell the police.
She WILL be mad, but its for the best.

I mean, she seriously needs to realize the situation she is in, and deal with it NOW

If she wants it to stop, something needs to be done about it.. NOW

Answered by atomicreload on Jan 04, 2009, 02:32PM
284 answers

Ok, yes you can tell somebody. Yes, it is true, she will be mad at you for quite a while but she will get over it. She has to. I know that she loves her dad but it embarresses her to death that you know what has happened to her. You will only be helping her if (and you should) you contact authorities. Something like this needs to end NOW. Don't take it lightly. She is emotionally affected by this and, sorry to say, but it sometimes takes years to get over it. For the meantime, as sad as this is to say, she needs to leave her home. You cannot live under that kind of nature and treatment. I do not know if this is inappropriate but explain the situation to your parents and see if you can hide her for a little bit. If not, which probably will be the case, she can go to authorities. They will put her under witness protection program, get her housing away from her dad, and lock him up. Something like this should never go unnoticed.
Best of luck, Alex

Answered by sotchick on Jan 10, 2009, 05:05PM
189 answers

babe, I think you r a wonderful boyfriend for sticking by her and being strong,, others would crumble or get violent and tha aint the way forward

all I can say is if she wont go 2 the police there isnt much you can do im affraid

I have been through this with a very very close friend, I've tried an tried to get her to seek her and closure from the police but she wont
just stick by her, b there when she needs u
im telling you this now that some things that she may tell you will hurt ok it does to me from whhat I've herd my bezzy has gone thru I feel like killing the moster who is doing this

just b there for her and incorage her its the best you can do for help!! trust me if you push her it will only affect hers and your relationship... you dont want that

peace x