Nothing is the same anymore

Ok so I have this friend. We broke up after being in a relationship at the beginning of this year, and now nothing is the same. He is sooo difficult to talk to. I want everything to be like it was before we went out. He wont talk to me or start conversations with me. He's the one who wanted to still be friends, but he acts like he doesn't. I mean I WANT to, but I dont want to have to force it! What do I do? please help!

That's what guys feel obliged to say when they are going out of a relationship. In fact, most of them don't want to stay friends. Just ignore him. When some time passes, and the things you've had fade away, you can be friends again. For now, he doesn't want it(for whatever reason) and by talking to him, looking at him and other stuff, you are just making him even more distant. Total ignore.

There are some guys that are like that. But try not to force on him so hard. Talking to each other is a good best thing. I had a boyfriend. But I broke up with him. But we do still talk and get along so good. That we are good best friends. But it is not the end of the world.If he still want to be friends with you. He should be saying something to you to say that ya'll are friends or not. Good luck if something happens between ya'll just to still being friends!!!