Not very affectionate husband again

Not very affectionate husband ...I have done the thing you suggested already in the past many time and he is still not very affectionate husband any other advice? Help.

Some people are just not inclined that way. Some people don't know what they've got till it's gone ( just to clear- I am not insinuating you leave him! just saying).

You need to speak to him and tell him your inermost thoughts. You need to explain that you need that reasurance and that love now and again. Tell him you feel unwanted and you thought that when you took your marriage vows that ment you were to share a life long of happyness together but you're simply feeling left out and unwanted.

Basically you need to tell him EXACLY how you feel and how strongly you feel about it. If he doesn't listen and continues to unaffectionate then you have decide if you are happy with the situation or you simly want more.

I'm not sure what the whole story is, so my answer could go two ways. Did your husband used to be affectionate, and he's not anymore - or has he never been? If he's never been real touchy feely - maybe try to accept that is not how he expresses how he feels. If you have been on his case about it- he may be more closed off. If he used to be and all the sudden stopped then perhaps there is something bothering him that he needs to address. Men don't want to feel at fault, or to blame (nobody really does) - they will go on the defense. How are you delivering your concerns? 'You dont ever touch me anymore..' is not gonna get you anywhere. 'Honey, I love the way you, I miss the way you... maybe we can...' will open him up a bit more. We have got to accept men are just different from us- they do not express themselves like we do. Try to understand him- you will have a better chance of getting what you want/need from him ; )