What do I do if I'm not over my ex boyfriend but I want to be?

I just broke up with my Ex. Yes Sad I know well it was him that broke up w/ me. A friend of mine and his mis-saw and thought I kissed a guy that I was flirting with while me and him were going out. She told him without confronting me and mistakingly ended me and him being together, shortly afterward I had another guy in 2 days likewise for him( a girl of course). It's been about 2-3 weeks and I still keep thinking about him which is driving me mad. So Hear are the only options

A) Try to forget him(... Yah right)
B) Make him jelouse ( so He will come crawling back)
C) use my manipulatve skills to outwit his girlfriend and catch her in the act. ( or push her into it )

Help ME, my sanity is wearing thin with every moment and every stoopid love song.

Second, how do you break up with a guy without destroying the friendship?

or D) be open up to your ex and tell him and if that dont work, try c hahaha

its kinda hard unfortunately to break up with a guy with out hurting a friendship.

just try saying , don't be a b*tch, give him some space and then talk to him a bit later. Im still mates with one of my ex's

This happened to me once. At a party in college that my guy couldn't make it to, random drunk guy tried to kiss me on the balcony of my second floor apt. I pushed him off and told him I was taken. My guy's best friend was in the parking lot and just saw some guy kiss me and then we went inside. My guy promptly told me to take a hike. Not a damn thing you can do. If you defend yourself, it will be seen as desparate lies. If you walk away, you will hear all the wispers as you leave the room from all the jerks calling you a dumb ho. You just have to find a way to make your #1 work. You won't get this guy back the same way you had him before.

Why would you think about him? if you were willing to flirt with someone else while you were dating?. You got caught fooling around with someone else thats why its over between you to.

You think he is going to want you back after he found out you were messin with someone else while you were together?