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Asked by orgasims_galor over 2 years ago, 4 answers.

I AM 13 GOING ON 14 AND I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH MY boyfriend BUT THEN AGAIN I DON'T. EVEN THOUGH I KNE THAT HE WOULDN'T MAKE ME DO ANYTHING THAT I DON'T WANT TO. I TRUST HIM a lot AND WE HAVE BEEN GOIN OUT FOR ALMOST 2YEARS NOW. WHAT SHOULD I DO? I'M...

AFRAID THAT I'LL REGRET THIS IF I DO. TO ME IT'S LIKE A GIFT THAT I'M going to JUST END UP RUINING IF I OPEN IT EARLY. DO YOU THINK I'M TO YOUNG?
ALWAYZ AND 4 EVER SEXYCHICANA

Answered by monkeyfun26 on Dec 29, 2006, 07:46PM
107 answers

Im kinda in the same situation, except you and your boyfriend have been going out for much longer.
I think that, if you are both ready, then maybe you should do soem serious thinking about it.
I believe that if you can think about it, and want to without second guessing yourself at all you are probably ready.
Also if in what ever mood you are in.. whether, happy, sad, horny, you will think it is alright.
If you cant do that.. then i think your not ready.. if you can.. then i say go for it. just be careful and use precaution..
Dont let it be just in the heat of the moment.

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Answered by karla on Dec 29, 2006, 08:05PM
51 answers

You are very young to be losing your virginity. If you are questioning whether you should or not then you're not ready and you should wait. You have a long time before you find the man that you're going to spend the rest of your life with, so you should try to save yourself for him.

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Answered by abbie98 on Dec 29, 2006, 08:22PM
12 answers

If you have any questions about doing it then you shouldn't do it. Remember the first person you are with you will remember for the rest of your life. You will never for get it. If it's bad or if it's good. You will always measure everyone else up to this person. Plus what if it doesn't work out with you two. What will you have to offer the next person that might be your soul mate or mr wright? You really need to think things over. Because you only get one first time. If the tables were turned and it was him having to do this for you, would he be willing to give up so much for you? If you have any doubts DON'T DO IT!

Answered by camidancebeat on Dec 30, 2006, 07:44AM
6 answers

DONT DO IT UNLESS URE 800% SURE

why? because i have been in the same situation
and YOU ARE VERY NORMAL
i had a 2year relationship too...never done it...and he also respected me.
It`s not about the meaning only, it`s about how u feel afterwards
and HOW MATURE ARE YOU
it`s not something u do with doubts
its something YOU DESSPERATEDLY FEEL YOU WANT AND KNOW U WONT HAVE REGRETS

THAT`S how ull enjoy it later : )