Why don't I want to have sex much anymore?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half. At first, when I was still living at home I wanted to have sex often. Now that I have been moved in with him for some time now, I never want to have sex. It seems like so much of a chore for me. And he is ALWAYS asking for it. Because I won't give it to him he is accusing me of being with other men. I don't know what to do. I don't think about sex that much and it seems like every time he tries to turn me on it irritates me even more. I feel really bad about it because I understand that he has needs too, and I love him very much. I just don't want to give in to him when I don't really want it.

I had the same problem, but it's my girlfriend who always wanted it. I think the best thing for you to do is to sit down and discuss the problem with him. Try to think of the reasons behind all of this. Does it turn you off when he asks for it? Have you just done it so much that you're bored of it now? If that's the case, maybe you could try something different in the bedroom, watch some adult videos together, experiment with toys or fantasy play, or maybe just try some new positions. Does he satisfy you in the bedroom? If not, you need to discuss that with him. There are so many things that could cause the problem that you're having. You can always FunMail me if you want to talk about it. Maybe I could help.

Typical. You suck him in by giving him what he wants so you can get what you want. When you get what you want you don't give him what he wants. Just another typical female.

Your profile states you are 19 y/o so if you are no longer interested in sex I would have to think you have a libido "problem". I emphasized problem because at your age there shouldn't be a libido problem. If you want to salvage or maintain your relationship "YOU" will have to make some changes because it doesn't sound like it's his problem from what you have told us, however it will eventually become a problem with him. You should probably seek medical advice first, which could be the cause of the problem and would be much less expensive than any type of professional mental help.