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How can I escape my abuse fiance?

Thunder Robot Asked by funadvice about 1 year ago, 5 answers.
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I'm 4 years with by fiance , but I don't love him anymore ... he is being very aggressive towards me the last year and a half ... he 3 times grabbed me and had forced sex with me and he 2 hit me and cracked my ribs ...
My ex is back from over sea and now wants to see me now and I'm still madly, truly in love with him ...
What should I do cause I really need to move out and get a way from my fiance ... I can't go on like this anymore?
I don't have family around me where I can go and stay for time being ....

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What The? Answered by juniperone on Apr 30, 2007, 08:30AM
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Say nothing, wait until he's gone, pack up whatever you can take with you in ONE MOVE, leave the furniture, and go stay with a friend until you get your own apartnent or find roommates to get your own place. Leave no trace of where you've gone and go to a friend he doesn't know and doesn't know your location. Disappear off your fiancee's radar, he doesn't deserve an ounce of information. Quit your job immediately and find a new one, OR if you can, tell your boss that you are escaping an abusive man and ask if you can take a month off or so and come back as a rehire after he thinks you're gone. But really, just find a new job and a new location and change your phone numbers. Leave the ring on the counter--DO NOT take it with you. Leave a note saying that you do not tolerate abuse and that you do not wish to ever be contacted by him again.

Geez, why do you girls need someone to tell you that it's okay to leave a guy who cracked your ribs and raped you? WAKE UP and act like a damn grown up. Who cares about the other guy, your focus is you, not your next relationship. Get your life together, put dudes on the backburner until that's done.

me Answered by babii on Apr 30, 2007, 10:22AM
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ya you shouldnt be wit a guy that rapes and beats you I was never in that situation but I know other people in my family that have gone thru it I was raped but not by a boyfriend you need to get out that relationship asap what if gets really nmad and kills you have to do what is best for you change your number quit your job dissapear thats the best advice I can tell u

hellooooooooo Answered by snowboarder on Apr 30, 2007, 12:06PM
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What they said... ^^^

Follow your heart...

And don't let a man do this to you... because if he does... he is NOT a man.

buddha? Answered by funguy on Apr 30, 2007, 06:07PM
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DO NOT let him know that you are leaving. This is where most statistics say that women are hurt. Make a plan. Do not contact him after you leave. Find a safe place to go to when you can. Do not go about packing everything too much and risk your health or even your life. There are organizations and women's shelters that can aid you and help you in what you should do next. You need to get out, but you need to do it right without getting hurt in the process. I hope that your ex can help as well. Let everyone know outside of his circle that you are planning on leaving and to watch out for you. His abuse will only escalate. Do not trust this man anymore.

Good luck.....

 Toc Answered by terrence333 on May 01, 2007, 02:32PM
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He doesn't want a woman he wants a dog. He don't LOVE you. Run ' run'run. Get away from him. I'm glad that you're not married to him.

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