Not attracted to husband

I am not at attracted to my husband of 13 years at all. We separated once because of this, but I felt so guilty about our child being from a broken home that we got back together after about a year, only to face the same problems again. My husband has a much stronger sex drive than I have ever had, and was really into internet porn and porno movies. This has been a major issue for us- we've been in counseling for that and other issues. I feel like his porn habit has made him seem gross to me, and that's part of the reason I don't want sex with him at all. There are many other factors involved- he's a male chauvenist, does not help much around the house and is 'emotionally' clueless. To top it off, I have dealt with moderate depression for years, and I think my marital situation is making my emotional state worse. I'm on a lot of Prozac! Is this a sign that it's time to move on, or is there hope that somehow the attraction could return?

I feel the same sometimes to my partner but my problems are different to yours.
First I dont think getting back together because of a child is the way to go about it. The child will feel that everything between the two of you is not right for your child. People may say oh well men never help round the house well thats rubish. If you want to live with a lazy man and run round after him then they will let you do it. If not then tell them that living together is equal sharing children house work etc. Being depressed is a hard thing to get out of and only you can get your self right and off prozac. The way you describe your hussband sounds to me like you have tried to make it work and it hasnt.... so move on. I am sure if you move on you will be off thoes tablets very soon make a new life you only get one chance why be in a relationship your not happy with .

Maybe if you started acting like a wife should to keep him happy he would would respect you more. You are the problem. He should be so weak and recovering from your lovemaking to not have the desire to look at porn. You leave him with no alternative but to satisfy himself. Take your kid and leave if you want to be a b*tch about it and he can find a good woman