Not an affair yet!

I hope many of you been in my situation or may have advice. I am married less than a year, and I started going out with my coworker whose married over a year (yes, to my surprise). We just talked and ended up kissing each other, but he mentioned going...

further than that the next time. I am so confused wether I should sneak or just be cool? Thanks everyone

Marriage is a commitment. Do your husband a favor and get a divorce first.

Figure out why you have let it go this far. Is your husband not there for you. Your relationship at home could get better if you talked to your husband about it. Don't tell him all the details but tell him that you are thinking about it. If you don't care about his feeling then keep doing what you're doing. I think that because you are asking advice on it you already feel guilty and don't want to go any further. Trust yourself. You'll do the right thing.

Yeah I may feel a little guilty about it. I don't think I would want a divorce, but I want to cheat on him, just because I'm very young and I like the thrill. But I decide not to go further!