She wants to get back together but we shouldn't

About 3 months ago,I walked in on my girlfriend screwing one of my co-workers. I havent talked to her since then. Word has gotten back to me that she wants to get back together.I know I should'nt,but I still love her. Help!

NOOO!!! dont do it

listen, I can't tell why ou what to do, but I can tell you what you shouldn't do. If you get back toghether with her, you are sending her the message that what she did was ok. Even though you both know it wasn't. And she might end up doing it again. Then, you end up hurt again. If you still love her and want to give it another try, go ahead. But, you should really think about it and talk to her before you just jump right back in.

Jax

If you could not react at the given moment with a graceful reaction, e.g. with a question: "can I be the next one?" - and join, ore else, and you are holding this case in your soul as a harm, then it is better to split up with this girl. The girl is full of life, and there is no reason to change this, and you will always suspect something, even when nothing happened, and your reproaches and suspicions will poison your relationship. I think you may love each other deeply but your nature does not fit, and both of you will suffer of this.

wow man, I don't even see how you could. Wouldn't that drive you crazy, everytime I'd see her I'd be thiking about seeing her screw that other dude. I think you would too, thats not something you can get by. I wouldn't recomend it, not just because of that but she would most likely cheat again

Wow, your a glutten for punishment! We teach people how to treat us...she is going to keep disrespecting you, because you are enabling her to do so! if she got away with it once, or twice, shes going to do it again! She isnt taking your feelings into consideration, and she only thinking about herself, which makes her very selfish! You must not think too highly of yourself that you are willing to settle for someone who doesnt have one ounce of respect for you!