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Not a virgin anymore

Asked by fau 5 months ago, 17 answers.
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I just found out my best friend since 2nd grade had sex. And she was drunk. We're in the 7th grade and she isn't even 13 yet, he has a picture of her on his phone of her naked lying on his bed sleeping and hes blackmailing her with it. I have no idea what to do. Shes like my best friend and I love spending time with her but this is huge I dont want to be mean because this has been the worst year for her but this is not good. I dont what to do!

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Answered by leviangel on Jun 06, 2008, 09:18PM
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it odesnt matter if shes your best friend you have to talk to her. for her sake dude!!

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Answered by leviangel on Jun 06, 2008, 09:00PM
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HOLY MOLY thats awful you have to talk to her about this or else who knows what could happen. She could become a prostitute. no joke. 2nd grade she was drunk and had sex. thats ridiculous. if you love your friend you'll talk to her. she needs help. she might have mental issues. My friend is the same way. shes been fingered 3 times and made out about 40 times...this year. talk to her. tell an adult. get help.

kitty Answered by ty on Jun 06, 2008, 09:00PM
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Uhm leviangel - "my best friend since 2nd grade "
no one said she had sex in the 2nd grade...

And how does this affect your friendship exactly? She's going through a hard time, but I dont see what it has to do with you? If she was drunk, she couldnt consent. That is technically considered rape. And she's underage... Why dont you talk to her...

Answered by leviangel on Jun 06, 2008, 09:06PM
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OOOHHH right lol I get it. and its not rape unless she was forced into it .

Me (2 years ago ) Answered by jkhsdfksdh on Jun 06, 2008, 09:08PM
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lol yeah not 2nd grade. 7th grade
but not much better!!
well it does consider me because shes my best friend and I dont know what to tell her cause she must be freaked out!! and I dont want to make her feel worse even though this isss really bad :[
help mee ahhh.

Answered by leviangel on Jun 06, 2008, 09:10PM
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Okay does she know that you know about her?

Me (2 years ago ) Answered by jkhsdfksdh on Jun 06, 2008, 09:16PM
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yeah she told me today
and she was all
"I cannot believe I just told you that!!"

Answered by leviangel on Jun 06, 2008, 09:30PM
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OMG wow okay well you got to talk to her and after you talk to her tell a counselor...well no dont tell a counselor have her talk to me

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kitty Answered by ty on Jun 07, 2008, 11:04AM
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leviangel - she's underage- that makes it rape
And if you are not conscious or able to consent - that also makes it rape/sexual assualt

Get her to talk to a counselor. If anything get her to call this hotline - they might be able to help her out: 1800 656 HOPE

she can go to the police - having nude pictures of a minor is a crime (not to mention sleeping with them)

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Me (2 years ago ) Answered by jkhsdfksdh on Jun 08, 2008, 09:00AM
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I dont know if it's a rape because my friend went along with it and was like OK with having sex with him...

kitty Answered by ty on Jun 08, 2008, 10:45AM
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ok, try and understand this, she was drunk and underage, it is legally still considered rape... whether she said yes or not, it is still called rape...
and just get her to call someone... taking a nude picture of a minor, and then blackmailing her is a serious crime... ask her to call the hotline... they will know what to do...

Me Answered by bethanyleigh on Jun 08, 2008, 10:49AM
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Its not rape unless it is forced

kitty Answered by ty on Jun 10, 2008, 10:57AM
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sigh, I'm done arguing about the law. It is called STATUTORY rape...

Me Answered by bethanyleigh on Jun 11, 2008, 09:36PM
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Im not arguing with you...Im sure your correct but also Im correct too

Me (2 years ago ) Answered by jkhsdfksdh on Jun 12, 2008, 07:39AM
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oh my god! I just want to know what to dooo!!! I tried to talk to her and she was like
"Come on I really need your support right now!" because guys were were walking home with were giving her a hard time about it

I want my best friend back!!

Me Answered by bethanyleigh on Jun 12, 2008, 09:27AM
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Dude if some guy was blackmailing my friend I would find something ficious to blackmail him with, I mean everyone has secrets...or you could just steal his phone and delete the picture...Why is he blackmailing her anyways?

Me (2 years ago ) Answered by jkhsdfksdh on Jun 12, 2008, 07:04PM
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I dont know he's not really doing it anymore

well...

mostly because it's summer now

but still
before he kinda stopped he was just showing people the picture and soon everyone in our school knew

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