Why doesn't he initiate sex?

Why is it that when it comes to sex with my partner it won't happen unless I make the first move? I'm really tired of doing that. I mean damn I want to be LOVED and TOUCHED, and ROMANCED to damn. Anyway it gets to the point were we both say we want it and I'm waiting on him and then (no oh yeah it happened) he falls asleep. I mean did he forget or what. I'm getting to the point were I feel like I might have to look somewhere else which I really don't want to do. PLEASE HELP IF POSSIBLE, I COULD REALLY USE IT.

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Talk to him about him. Let him know you want him to make a move for once. Not that you don't love making the first move, but you'd like it if he did it once in a whilee. Just communicate with your partner.

I cant really help much..I just wanted to let you know that you are not alone..I am stuck in the same boat..I tried talking to him about it..he felt akward after our conversation I guess..soo I for about a week nothing happened..he initiated about 3 times in the following month ..which was amazing for him..but then it stoped all together again..I didnt want to talk to him about it again because I thought that would just make him uncomfortable and not do it ever again...I even tried waiting untill he initiated..I would not have sex with him..unless he did something to start it..so I would walk around practically nakid..or press up against him..even kiss his neck..you know simple things to get him started..but he would not do anything back..he just expected me to keep going..but I didnt..that went on for about 2 months..untill one night I acctually climed on top of him and got as close as I could to having sex..he was enjoying it..but then I layed off a bit to see if he would do something to initiate more..but no..he just layed there..then fell asleep..the rection is tearing apart my self confidence..so it is probably doing the same to you..so I say that if you fall in this same routine and you have the option on telling him that you are going to leave him to find someone who loves you and wants to make love to you because you cant put up with his lack of interest anymore then go for it..maybe then he will see how much this matters to you..or maybe he will just be stuck up and let you go...I decided to continue what I am doing for 3 more months before I try leaving.