No pain no gain?

Do people honestly believe that pain is pleasure..like say if a girl is a virgin and she gets her cherry popped a boy will say just take it because pain is pleasure but if a boy gets head and the girl bites him by accident he complains but I thought pain...

was pleasure what if a boy tries to do a girl in her butt and she cant take it will he say pain is pleasure?So does pain really equal pleasure..Can people give me their opinions because im just curious

I don't know bout all that but when I popped my girlfriends cherry I new it was hurtin her and I asked her if it was to painful and if she wanted to stop cause I realy didnt want to hurt her

When it comes to losing one's virginity, most of the time it will hurt, and the guy taking the virginity should have the patience to go slow. As for anal sex, according to my wife, there is slight pain at first, but as long as we take it slow, the pain goes away. She calls this the good pain. Sometimes the sting of a slap on the asscheek can feel exciting too, as long as the slap isn't done too hard.