No means no!

how do you tell a guy that you want to save your self intul your married. im really in a jam because he doesnt understand (1) he walks on me in the shower (2) hes always looking for a way to get a glimse on my body. and 3 I found a pair of my panties on his room. we are engaged by the way. I mean is this behavior normal in a guy? why does he do the things he does?
I mean why cant he wait another year?

It sounds like you have a dificult situation on your hands. Every guy I different so I cant say whether what he is doing is normal. It sounds to me that he really loves you and is just anxious to get intimate with you. The best approach in my opinion would be to sit him down and explain to him your feelings as clearly as you can. Tell him you you want to wait until marriage and as him to respect that even if he may not agree with it. If he loves you which im sure he does beause you are engaged he will respect your boundries.

Good luck in life and love

He is just being a normal guy, your body asks you for things and he is just getting normal urges to be intimate with you thats all. If its getting to the point that he is making you very uncomfortable then just talk to him about it seriously but it sounds like you have a great guy if he is willing to wait for you. He is just getting normal urges thats all and wants to be with you, theres nothing wrong with that. Just tell him to back off a bit thats all.

it sounds to me like your in a tricky place, I dont know if im right but has your man allready been with a woman before, because for him to be so needy it sounds like hes done it then had to stop, wich is like giving a dog a bone then taking it away, or giving a chiled a sweet then taking it away... I know it must be hard for you and you but stick to your guns and dont give in if he loves you he will wait, and he wont stop trying it on because its a hard thing to stop thinking about when he knows your in the shower so he knows your not wering anything, goodluck hun hope you stick to it