No libido, how can I remedy?

I am a 22 year old female with some issues. I never feel excited, and it's starting to cause problems. I live with my boyfriend of 4 years, and he tries very hard to get me going, but I never feel excited. I never thought to mas*urba*e honestly (I guess I was a sheltered kid) and I've tried but I don't feel anything and I definitely do not feel excited. What can I do about this? Is it normal to feel this way? I've never came close to having an org**m.. I can't even fathom something like that. What can I do?! I'm running out of ideas

I think it's all in your mind. Maybe you should just relax a bit. Don't try hard to feel something because that might just frustrate you even more and do the total opposite. Just relax and keep trying until you both find something that works. we are all se*ual creatures. He just needs to discover what "does it for you".

But it's been 4 years and I've still got nothing. I don't remember ever actually feeling excited, only in dreams, weird as it is to say. I think something is wrong with me, and I know it is getting to him.

Could be a sexual disorder...

Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder: HSDD is characterized as a lack or absence of sexual fantasies and desire for sexual activity for some period of time. It must cause marked distress or interpersonal difficulties and is not better accounted for by another mental disorder (I.e. depression), a drug (legal or illegal), or some other medical condition. There are various subtypes. These include general (general lack of sexual desire) or situational (still has sexual desire, but lacks sexual desire for current partner); acquired (HSDD started after a period of normal sexual functioning) or life-long (the person has always had no/low sexual desire.)
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You might want to see a doctor about it...

Well, im studying to be a doctor and ik a lot about this stuff...(dont ask me why just listen) haha, anyway,1 if you get excited in your dreams, try to fulfill them.
2, it is most likely all in your head, let loose be wild
3, I believe that the whole not mas*erb*ting thing is also huge, that is how you fiigure out what you like so you can tell your boyfriend that, when you mas*erba*e, try using something that virbrates, if you dont have a vibrator, ik many girls actually use electric toothbrushes and it actually works
4, try something new with your boyfriend, truthfully, ik people have this problem a lot, and doing something that gives you an adrenaline rush can help extremely!!!
~such as temperature changes
~speed changes
~and just plain being scared and such

hope it helps a bit, funmail me if you need to talk

if this doesnt work...you could possibly have HSDD...

But I highly doubt it, very rare

I've tried a vibrator, we've tried everything. I never feel excited. Honestly I pretty much feel dead inside. I don't know if it's depression or what, but antidepressants will just make this problem worse. In order to successfully mas*urba*e you need to be excited which I can't do. The thought of me doing that to myself doesn't seem very exciting. How would a doctor be able to help me? It's probably all in my head, and if thats the case, then I am screwed

ok well I've done a bit of research and found a couple things that girks have tried with your same symptoms and were able to overcome their problem
1-talk to your boyfriend about your sexual fantasies and see if you can make them happen
2-try making games out of sex
3-getting intimate while intoxicated, try this at home and DO NOT DRIVE after
4-this one sounded strange but was lagitament...be intimate with another woman...you should probably talk to your boyfriend about this one, but it worked in the many cases of your problem I've read about. The reason is because women know what they want more than men.

hope this helps
funmail me for questions, I can help

uhm well see if there's a physiological reason behind it... and if it's in your head, that's what psychologists are for go see a sex therapist...

Haha...sex therapists are probably going to ask too many dumb questions, but they will proolly figure it out. still try my ideas, if they dont work, it probably is all in your head, thats when you should seek help.