No fun mail?

Why cant I send funmail to other users?

have you confirmed your email address?
if you have... make sure there is something in the subject line, and make sure the user hasnt blocked you (try sending me a funmail as a test if you like)
if none of this works, I'll let the admin know

After you confirmed your email add you will be able to send funmail to other user of FunAdvice..

I am able to FunMail to you, ty, but not to another user, I've never FunMailed before so I dont see how I could be blocked? Is there an option to block everyone out?

yes there is, you go to edit my profile, toggle funmail, and then click on turning off funmail

For now, I'd post a comment asking her to get into contact with you...

 
Some people require that they approve whether you can be their friend or not. For those people, you can't send them Fun Mail unless you've been approved as their friend.