How can I tell my boyfriend I don't want a baby?

I'm 17 and my boyfriend wants me to have a baby with him, how can I tell him thats a HORRIBLE idea without hurting his feelings?

How old is your boyfriend? If he is older, tell him it's illegal, if he is the same age, say you are too young for a child, if you are still in school. There isn't an easy way to say it except to just say no, he can't force you. It's your body.

Tell him that you love him but that you aren't ready at the moment to have a baby. You are too young. You'd like to spend time with him and experience life with him as a couple, which you couldn't do with a baby. Maybe you even want to build up a career or go to colleage. Babies are expensive and they are there for life. Please don't back down on this issue and make sure you use your own type of birth control like the pill. Say that in years to come when you've got a place to live and money behind you to support your child that you can then consider having a family.

That way you're not saying No you're just saying Not Now.

I'm presuming you're happy with him otherwise.

Good Luck.

Baby iam not raedy to have afamily yet--- maybe at a later time in life.
If he can't respect your discision . you should rethank your relationship

tell him... " why dont you try having a baby! its painful!"
lol...try telling him that you r not ready