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New school phobia

Asked by lexi72996 3 months ago, 3 answers.
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I am going to a new school. I am hella scared. How do I stay cofident? Tips? Ideas?

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mizzmewithatbull Answered by mizzshanda on Jul 21, 2008, 08:33PM
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The beautiful thing about going to a new school is that you can revamp your image and no one will know...be who you dreamed to be in the old school or just upgrade if you were happy their...You'll find your way...just breathe easy, relax, keep eye contact at all times and dont worry about anything...if you get a lil nervous...dont let'em see ya sweat...smile, crack a joke but be honest and sincere to yourself...most of all...be happy.

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dog Answered by amblessed on Jul 21, 2008, 08:38PM
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Don't be shy! This is easier said than done for many people but it is essential. Even if you are painfully shy by nature you are in a new environment and nobody at your new school know about your shyness. So put on a big smile and start out by being friendly to everybody you see.
Introduce yourself to people when you find a seat in class. Sit down in a place where you feel comfortable (yes, the back of the class is OK) and make a point if saying hello to the people sitting near. A good opening line; "Hi, my name is Joe and I'm new here. Do you know, is this teacher any good?"
Find your niche group. Look for the type of people you were friends with in your old school and approach them. Ask if you can join them for lunch or during class look to pair up with somebody from that group. Believe it or not the majority of teens are more than happy to make a new friend.
Join a club or a team. This is the easiest way to meet people at a new school (or meet new people at your old school) because while being an organized event it is in a much more casual setting than the classroom. You get a chance to spend time with peers who have similar interests to yours and you get to bond with them in a more laid back environment.
Don't be afraid to stand out. If you are good at a certain sport or do well in a certain subject don't be afraid to strut yourself. People are drawn to people with talent and stifling yours to avoid being a show-off will only end up hurting you. So if you have a special talent or skill make it known.
Be mindful of prosocial norms at your school. This simply means try to fit in by observing the positive norms at your school. If your new school is a big football school become a fan. If your school is more academically inclined join a study group. Find out what makes your school tick and join in the fun.

Have a great year !!

Answered by zoedee on Jul 22, 2008, 08:31AM
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mizzshanda and amblessed are so right, just be yourself and relax,if anyone makes fun of you wich I dout they will, they will probabli be jelouse,also dont be shy and hide away, mix in with people and be coool.

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