Why can't I have an org**m with a man?

I am 27 and have never had an org**m with a man. Every org**m I have experienced has been self induced. I am engaged to get married and would appreciate sex more if I could find a way to get off with a man. I require a lot of stimulation and feel that this is part of the problem. Please help!

im the same I find it very hard to org**m, I can only org**m in one position and thats still a challenge! I find that I org**m best when my boyfirend gives me oral as I have constant stimulation on my clit. Be patient and experiemt with different positions, even try some sex toys to include in your sex life. If you can org**m on your own then tell your fiance what you do to make you come and see if he can do the same to you. When your having sex dont always be thinking about it as you will never have one if thats all your concentrating on. You can get vibrating co*k rings which stimulate your clit as your having sex. Relax and just have fun it will happen eventually! Hope it helps