Never had a boyfriend

hi, im 21 years old. I've never had a boyfriend or even kissed a boy. I know it sounds pathetic and I hate myself. Im overweight but I know that can't be the only reason guys dont like me because I see other overweight girls getting guys. I just...

really want a relationship and I feel so pathetic and unloved because nothing has happened for me in my 21 years.
Please any advice!

I used to feel this way too. I went through high school watching all of my friends find boyfriends and I was always alone. I was also overweight, not by much but enough to make me insecure. I felt very unloved, lonely and jealous of other girls. Then one day everything changed, I stopped feeling sorry for myself and decided to stop worrying about it. I started working out which made me feel better about myself and gave me more confidence. I stopped worrying about being alone and focused on making myself happy. Only then did I meet the man of my dreams.

You aren't the only 21 year old to never been kissed, it's more common then you think, people just don't talk about it because they are embarassed. I actually have a couple of friends and co-workers, gorgeous girls too.

Once you are happy with yourself then you can take a look at what you are doing wrong. Are you coming off too desperate? Are you getting out and meeting new guys? You might need to push yourself out of your comfort zone and meet new people. Go to places that you are interested in, maybe join a club or take lessons in something that interests you. And if none of that works you can always ask your friends to set you up with someone. Most people think that set ups are silly but if your friends know someone that they think you might like then you should give it a chance.

The bottom line is the more you tell yourself that you're pathetic, the more you feel pathetic and guys like a bit of confidence. So stop hating yourself, don't stress out about it and give it a bit more time. I know Im glad that I did.

good luck!

dont worry ma bosses daughter is over weight and shes engaged now.. if I were you I'd relax he'll come around eventually

I'll give you a kiss.

However, being healthy is extremely important. I'm sorry but in today's society you may be frowned down upon.

Go to the gym, work out, and EAT HEALTHY!!!

don't worry I'll be 20 in a couple of months and I've never been kissed or had a boyfriend either but God made someone special just for you and you just have to wait and find him and if it's right then you will know he's tha one. Have guy's even flurted with you and if they have then that's something right their lol I hoped I have help but try not to let it get you down because I have been down that road and it's not a good felling

It might be difficult to find a boyfriend, but you can definitely get kissed. Just go out and hook up with a guy. It's that easy. Once you do this, you will feel better about yourself, and everything will fall into place.