Need to know what to do

I have a boyfriend that I have been dating for eleven months now. Just when I think things are going good he hits me with the fact that he says he does not love me and is thinking of moving back to Ohio to be closer to his son. He has been acting like he doesn't want me around, but when I ask him about it he says that he is just dealing with some things. He wants me there. I don't feel as close to him as when we first started dating. I love him to death and see myself spending the rest of my life with him, but only if his attitude changes back to when we first met. Let me know what you would do in this situation. Please help

I think you should find another boyfriend and give him a good seeing to. Make sure someone finds out about it and it get's back to your boyfriend, that will give him the chance to chuck you. If he chucks you then it's problem solved and you can go out with the other guy instead.

it sounds like the things he says to you hurt you emotionally. my boyfriend says somethings like that to me sometimes and he does it to see what I would say or for a 'joke'. if I were you I would tell him how you feel when he says those things to you. :-)

I will have to agree with the first response that was posted as an answer to that question...... Your present partner is playing psychological games.... but let me reassure you of this..... this issue is not gender related ... I hear these concerns on a daily basis from both male and female..... the only difference is that a woman normally will send a very clear and unmistakeable message that the relationship is not able to keep a coherent bond and all future plans that she embraced in the past no longer apply in her future... Now let me get to the meat of this question..... there is something very unusual if you have a XY chromasome... and this can go three ways... a)He is afraid to tell you that the relationship that the two nurtured is falling apart.....Instead he will dance around your emotions with very suttle hints .. and he is praying that you pick up on the signals he is sending... once again this a very common tactic for the heterosexual male.... the other answer I am going to give.. yes could be looked at as being very biased..... but the present day American society is looking for quick fix to satisfy this sick need to play head games .... and yes these kind of people feed off of other peoples misery.... now the final one ..... remember this only applies to males (my research is pretty clear on this one.) you have become a piece of property to him... he is trying to have his cake and eat too... this is very, very, very common.... he wants to snap his fingers and you jump....
For your sake it is time to draw the line on this... and yes he is going to get very upset the moment you give the ultimatum.... Do you know why?? A) you called his bluff B) and he is upset because he knows that he is wrong... and he feels cheated because you have turned the conversation around on him...... Sick but true... remember I never said this was going to be easy... but hang on.... yes it will take about 4 months to get over this situation... but let me assure you there is a mate made just for you in this world.. not the answer you were looking for... I know... but you are dieing from the inside out...

I think you both need a break from each other just give it some time and start seing new people.