Why can't I org**m from handjobs? (continued)

So Earlier I asked on here about why my girlfriend can't get me to c*m through mas*urbat*on, and I got a few answers on here saying that it is either psychological, or bad technique. So today after we laid in my bed and I started to get a little intimate with her and she said she didn't want to because her tongue hurt. I didn't want to seem like I was forcing it on her, and I didn't say that she didn't need to make out with me to do what I wanted to do. So I got really frustrated and just turned away and told her how much I hate myself for having this problem. I just wanted to tear down all my posters and push my tv over and break everything in my room, but I just sat there. She grew really worried and later we talked things out. After we started going at it again, I started to finger her, and she grew really really tired after about 5 minutes of this. So, we waited, and I asked if she wanted to keep going and she said yes. So I decided to try something new, and use lubricant. We used lotion, and after she tried making me c*m for only a few minutes, I could tell she was loosing interest (and hope), and was growing very tired. I know that she has asthma, but I don't know if that was what was making her so tired. She and I talked again after we stopped, and I asked if she wants to try a blow job sometime, and she agreed, but she has a gag reflex. I'm not THAT big, but I'm sure that if she tried deep throat, it would definitely trigger a gag. She has never done anything with any other guy before, so she is very inexperienced. We talked about it, and are comfortable with our plan on having sex in may when she can get her birth control, (with condoms too). Please help me, and give me comments on what I can do to make this relationship work.

Ok after reading this I think the problem is this........even tho you are trying your girlfriend isnt making it easier for you becos she is always complaining that she is tired and pretty much has given up on pleasing you, now becos of this attitude when you do get inot doing things you are more focussed on her getting tired and bored for you to enjoy yourself therefore wont c*m. You both need to get into it to the point where you just got to have each other......that your both so turned on and into it that you want nothing more than to c*m, practice that 1st and it will help you if your girlfriend gets into it.

You ended your query with the specific question, "what I can do to make this relationship work." First. forget about the sexual satisfaction part and just concentrate on being a friend and having her as your friend. The sex stuff can wait. - - Good Luck - - Gino

well dont try to do it all the time because then you both will get tired of sex and trying to make it happen wait until you and her are both really in the mood let her try to turn you on or sumthing and then when you are really horny let her mas*erba*e you and see if it works have fun =]
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