Need help on winning girlfriends

I've been a loner my whole life and people always wondered "who's that mysterious girl?" or they judged me just because I wasn't apart of their little group. I am an outsider.
I've never kept any girl-friends. . And have been without friends for a complete 7 1/2 years! hey, I'm only 19, and girls these days aren't very excepting or original. I'm that rare kind that don't follow trends, don't gossip, don't curse, don't ever ever date or go out with boys. (not that I want to ever!) I am very well myself. I do not intend to be involved in those kind of things! It's so hard to get along with people I would like to befriend. How can I look approachable and win/ make girl-friends?

By the way, it stinks, but I have more (sorta) guy-friends than girl-friends. I'm so tired that I don't have anyone to shop with me ( my sister dislikes it), or go to the book store and chat and look at magazines, or just plain hang out with.
So, how did you girls make your friends? At school, during summer. .how how ??

Thanks for your support and advice tons!!!

girls are mean nasty destructive psychos. your not missing out but not knowing this I can see how you may feel the way you do.believe it or not no girl who is a friend to anther girl is really who they are on the inside on the outside or "a fake" so to speak. and im not saying be someone else just learn to listen more than agree and learn to tolerate the most annoying species on the planet.even my girlfriend think all girls are b*tches or atleast have the capacity to be one.listening and acting like you care is almost as good as agreeing with even the dumbest girls.just pretend to take an intrest but still be yourself.almost like being nice to coworkers.u dont really give a sh*t about them you just want to be nice to avoid awkwardness to open the door for friendship.and believe it or not I am a nice guy I just come from a place where girls are evil(new jersey) I jjust learned conformity doesnt always have to mean betraying who you are its just a part of fitting in.dont lose sight of what makes you what you are and you learn to even have fun around them.im sure your a nice person so just be nice and youll be recognized for that.it opens a window so girls will confide in you then just listen you dont have to give advice cause they just want to talknot listen themselves.but honestly dont worry about it in college or whereever what ever you do youll find a niche of people that ull be down to earth with.oh and haviong a boyfriend actually does open a door to making girl friends cause its something to have in common and girls know guys therefore you find a guy you can be with that you like chances are his friends that are girls will be like you and easier to befriend

I wouldn't think of it with all those curse words. Geez.