Need help getting over him

its kinda a long story, but ill try to shorten it...

In january I dated a guy and we dated and everything was great, we didnt say I love you until we meant it and we both were virgins and gave ourselfs to each other. he always said things like he wanted to be with me forever. have kids when we were older and get married, all that kinda stuff, when we kissed (for me, dunno about him) it was major fireworks and we loved spending time with each other. I hate to admit this (mostly for the part coming up more into the story ) but im only 15, some people dont think you can be in love that young but I say otherwise.

Anyways it was perfect..but of course something went wrong. or I wouldnt be asking for help lol. we ended up breaking up.. because he said things just werent the same anymore between us :S.. pretty much out of the blue. well a week later I found out I was pregnant (thats the part) and I told him of course.. but he still didnt want to be with me. I told him I would wait for him because he was something special and well now im due in 7 weeks! and nothing has changed. we see each other in school and we have the same friends, and it has kicked in that I really am pregnant but still nothing:S.. he has dated 3 other girls since we broke up and liked 8 all together (but they didnt date him because they thought he should be with because of whats happening). a lot of people tell me hes just looking for a girl to screw around with. but a lot of people tell me that hes so confused, scared and doesnt know what to do and will come around when the baby comes. I dont think he will tho.

I have talked to him about "us" happening again a couple of times but he told me we're never gunna happen again. and I believe him, we probably arent. but I cant get over him its driving me crazy!!! I think about him all the time, cry over him all the time, talk about him all the time. and other guys have taken interest in me too. but I cant seem to be with anyone else. I want to wait for him and im willing too. but the down part is the pain from not knowing if im waiting for nothing ......

Anything really would help from anyone.. advice on getting over him, if I should wait, even stuff about the baby (hes a boy). I would turn to friends or family but I always think there just telling what I want to hear or trying to be nice. and strangers of course would be more to willing to tell me if im living in some fantasy.

Thanks!
-Amy

OK for starters what I think is well, you are being a brave girl. 15 years old thats still a child this is very sad. Its hard enough getting over a boyfriend let alone trying to get over him while having his child. I say you should honestly try to forget him all together this is not fair on you. you dont need the stress at all. As long as you have friends and family to help that will be good for you. He might come around one day but then again he might not. But for now and for yourself try and forget about him.

hello Amy, you sound like a nice person, and I'm sure you probably dont think you deserve whats happened between you and your ex, one thing is for sure though..............your better off without him in your life. try to focus on urself and your baby, think about making urself a better person and a mother your dear son can be proud of. fill your thoughts with the best of what life has got to offer. get training, never stop learning, be constructive and end all destructive thoughts and behaviours. love Amy and love her really well.