Need help

I'm in love with a guy who has a girlfriend and just want to have sex with me but I want to have sex with him too but im afraid, I dont want to reap anything I sow and I have a boyfriend but he cant satisfy me?

then you need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you want to be satisfied

but its nothing he can do. tried everything

what have you guys done? if you want to you can just e-mail me. that way nobody sees what we are talking about. :P

nothing, though I really do want him but I want him for more than just sex.

what are you afraid of? having sex with him?

I'd really consider the consequences first...if you think you could live with yourself afterward, I guess go for it...but the guilt would eat at me for the rest of my life...just be careful

If you want more than a relationship, having sex isnt going to get you one. Sex doesnt make a guy fall for you, or commit to you. ~Guy wants sex~, ~girl gives guy what he wants~, ~guy stays with girlfriend~, ~girl gets used~, ~end of contact with guy.~ He wants sex from you, not a relationship! If satisfaction is number one in your relationship, either seek out a sex counselor, or find a guy whos SINGLE! If you dont know how to please yourself, then you cant expect your boyfriend to know how to please you. Its ALL about communication. Dont use lack of satisfaction in your relationship to justify screwing another guy. I think you need to learn what love truly is!

Ok, well first off...you need to leave your boyfriend if he is not what you want or need, and secondly, you need to leave that girls boyfriend alone, because put yourself in her place, and then think about how you would feel...good luck. :]