Need advice by 10am today

ok so my boyfriend comes over and juust starts kissin me and when we got to the bed went str8 to fingering me...we've been going out for a while and I wanted him to do it so its ok...the problem is I wasnt quite in the mood...he's comming round ten how...

do I show him I want to be curested(spelled it wrong) and teased before anythting else without killin the mood???

You play hard to get, push his hand away and playfully tell him has to earn it or has to get you in the mood first.

Tease him urself..so he no you want to be teased. ye gentley push his hands away.
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I agree with bubbles

Does he JUST come over for some action?

dizzy, he thinks your body works like his. That is, he's ready for the main event within a minute of seeing you. You have to teach him about feminine response and desire. If he has a good heart, he'll understand and want to become a more sensitive, effective lover to you.

You have to remember that you are by definition more mature than he he is. The first thing inexperienced guys have to learn is that it's not about them and that the best sex comes from giving. He's fingering you to prepare you to satisfy him. He doesn't yet know that his real satisfaction (his sense of himself as an effective lover) comes from your excitement and bliss. It's not all his fault. Girls are notoriously bad about verbalizing what they want/need from the encounter - the good and the bad.

The second thing he needs to learn is that your sexual response is achieved through trust and intimacy. That's what the cuddling is about. Again, he's clueless because he thinks your sexuality is the same as his.

In summary, try to talk to him about this and tell him where your buttons are and the order they need to be pushed. Open it up by asking him about his buttons and then turn it around to yours.