Should I ignore him or ask him what his problem is?

firstly thanks for the advice on my first question. and secondly okay now in this pass sunday I was surprised cause he went a little minute coming to sunday school class (church now). but anyways he came in at the end of everything because we was saying closing prayer and we was wraping it up so we can start church. so he came and yes to be honest I didnt bother to look up at to get hes attention. so we left out of class and the whole church time he didnt say not a single thing to me and um I guess he was in a okay mood. but no he hug some of hes homeygirls though. but he kept like staring or gaulking at me with that like half-frowny look.so when I went to sit down in church he kept noticing and paying attention to everyone else and grinin and smilin at everyne else which is cool but he cant speak or show love to hes own girlfriend though. um I kept tryna tell him to come here so we can talk and to let him know hes welcome to sit by me but he was actin like he didnt see me. so I was like well okay hell be alright. but it still was good to see him though. anyways well in church he was leanin back against the wall so one of his homegirls told him to come sit by her so when she walked passed and told him that he glance at her an shook his head okay. so yeah right then in my head I was wondering oh now he up in her face. whoever she was. I didnt know her though.anyways so in my mind I felt a little hurt cause he can go and say okay and sit with his homey girl but he wont sit by me and im his girlfriend.oh man if you was in church with me and you where sittin with me you would of thought his homegirl he was sittin bywas his new girlfriend. readson is is because he was over there talking like he kept whispering something in her ear and acting all into there conversatin which is alright but he kept glancing over at me though while he was whispering something in his homegirls ear. and I notice a couple of times she looked over at me so I really dont know if he was telling her about me . also um he kept glancing over at hes homeboy and his homeboy and him laughed just being childish an immature.so my so call boyfriend know what he was doing and yeah it was started to nick a nerve with me an I would lie if I say how he think that made me feel he over there sittin with his homegirl and he was all lovey dovey with her and they just friends now. anyways um at the end of church I pointed to the girl that my so call boyfriend was sittin by his homegirl. um I pointed at his homegirl and told her come here and she pointed and said her an I smiled and said yes you so I came up to her and gave her a big hug and say hey how are ya? she she gave me a ginuine smie and say hey so I told her in her ear (hey you know I said my boyfriends name and she said oh yes girl he is my friend and I said oh girl I thought yall was related and his homegirl said oh no,no girl he is just my homeboy and I said well im his girlfriend(I said my name) and then I said yeah girl im his ol-lady. so she stop and pause an bed-back and smile and said oh girl I didnt know he had a gilfriend. his homegirl said she didnt know he was with me and yes she was a little surprised at him so I said yes girl when been together since last year april so she seemed like she was truely happy for my boyfriend. and I told her yes girl we been together for a minute she oh man I didnt know I said oh girl yes I thought he told so . so I said it was good talking to ya and I said you seem so sweet an I said you a pretty sister ,ya know out of sista to sista love and she said oh girl thankya and she said I was really pretty to I said thankya. and I told her I wont hold her long I had to go but I gave her another hug and told her had a blessed week and I love her sista. and she said the same thing to me. so the whole time I was talking to her he was standing up there playin off like he wasnt llistening to nothing we where saying but he was though. so he glance over at me and pause and sorta kinda gave me a look like what we talking about an looked away but he didnt move he was standing up there the whole time he kept looking back at me and her talking but he just kept glancing back at me. that was weird though as if he was tryna catch my eye. so yes to be honest I didnt say nothing to him I was chillin back,and chillin low for a change. cause the good-girlfriend I am I am always runnin in his face and he dont treat me right no ways. so what ya think about this? also um I been wantin to talk cause its a lot of things I want to get off my chest but im wondering should I ? I dont want to make things worser. also at the end of church I was kinda relieved cause like I said he was over there sittin with his homegirl but he was actin all like he was into her like that his girl-girl but what it is tha thats the true him he pays attention to them more and hes is really affectionate with hes homegirls like hell hug them in a quick second and talk to them. and I understand a lot of those girls he grew up with but there is a limit though. and to be honest I dont do him like he do me. its like he make me or try to make me feel like im lesser that what it is and im always the one left hangin and like a outsider and I always get a strong feelin like he going to leave me hangin an kick me to the curve an choose his homegirls over me. also he dont make feel like yeah this my ol-man an im proud. and it like one minute his descent than his shady than his snapy than his kinda okay than he embarrasses the mess out of than his mad. oh man sometimes I dont know where my patient comes from an still when I go to church I deal I am very happy but it aint cause my so call boyfriend though. but when im in church I deal with it because now it like he didnt say anything to me and he havent called me since way last year in like september fa real. and um yes I am really dealing with this but I would an say im really concern about him an um I I still care an love but its like im I dont know what to do because his leavin me and stead of leavin me hangin an its like I dont know whats going on with him an um he act so funny towards me. an still I dont have the heart to do him like cause im not like that with him regardless of how low he treats me.and for like example when I talked to him on the phone he always interrupts me an hell kept saying something like hold wait hold on or he be either talking loud in the background or one time we was on the phone an he was clownin so he told me babe hold on an he took so long comin back to the phone an he had me on hold for a long time. and also for valentines he faked me out we didnt get together an for his birthday I wanted to do something special for him but he did something else instead. and for my birthday I had anough since to call an tell him I wanted for us to spend time with each an he faked me out so I was like man. so the day of my birthday he knew it was my birthday an ask me did he call me any that day at least said happy birthday. no he not. so what ya think about that? so way back in feb. I ask him was we still together he said who said we wasnt still together. so I was a little shocked because he was so up and down I thought we was a little broken up but I was wrong. so now the last time I taked to him on the phone was in the early part of may and I asked him then babe are we still together and it was so silent in the background an he didnt say yes or no or nothing an he didnt give me no answer and he left me hangin. so now I really dont on hes side are we still together. well on my side yes im still with him but its like he dont express his feelins an he dont share nothing with me know about anything.and I gave him to numbers of where to reach an he still dont . whenever I do talk to on the phone I do all the callin. an even when I had my own cell and gave it to him he still never called me and I call him fa real. and now we have a picnic and another fellowship dinner coming an I pretty sure he will be coming to them and I have a good feeling he gon clown again an try to embarass me cause thats how he is and thats how he do me try to put me on blast and laugh an act like he angry towards me. how should I act? what should I do? should I ignore him or pull him to the side an ask him whats his problem? an I already know he gon be all into his homegirls at the church picnic.should I still be nice to him anyway an attempt to talk to ? I said attempt cause hell probably treat me kinda shady then 2.
ps:keep in touch an thanks for the advice on the first question I asked ya.have a blessed night.

wow that was a lot of stuff to read. I only read some of it, but I didn't need to really read all that to give you this bit of advice. if you really care about this guy (and it seems like you do) then here is some real relationship advice. the one thing that turly keeps an actual relationship going is communication. when commincation goes away, you don't have a relationship anymore. if he is refusing to talk to you about anything anymore, he has probably moved on with his life or he just doesn't feel comfortable about talking to you about the things that are bothering him. how long have you two been together for? if it hasn't been a very long amount of time then this is a good indication that there will be a lot of problems later in the relationship if you two end up in deciding to take things to a more serious level. what will happen in 10 years if you two will get married? will there be this distancing thing later in life? well, if he won't or for some reason can't find a way to talk to you and you want things to work out, then you should take that first step to opening the lines of communication with him. if he still absolutely refuses to talk to you then tack it up to the relationship is no more and move on. you don't seem to be very old so I'm sure you can probably find someone else to date. so ask yourself if it is really worth this emotional stress to see if you are willing to go the extra distance and try to work these things out.

I saw some of your other posts and you need to get away from him!!!if he is your boyfriend then you need to brake it but if you think he is and he isnt then dont go and embarress urself but you it seems like to him that your stalking him!but you arnt!just find somebody new!