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How should I play this situation?

Asked by mysteriousgyrlie24 3 months ago, 2 answers.
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okay me an my boyfriend been together since last year april. but for a minutue now we been in a dry spell though. an also I know hes been wantin to take things to the next level with me on a physical level. but I was thinkin that is some of the reason why hes been so distance from me lately. anyways um now an more than ever I am ready to spark an take things to the next level with him on a physical level with him. also um for the past 3 weeks we havent been sayin or callin each other.but also he doesnt know how I feel about him an me takin to the physical part of our relationship. so I need your best advice on this situation. so is there something I can say or do to give him a hint that im ready? also hes homeygirls be around him so much but I do know I can get him alone . so I was thinkin bout lettin him know like surprise him maybe. or when I talk to him dont give him a long story just get quick an to the point. but whats the best thing I can say to my boyfriend to like make him wonder or think hmm what she mean? or something to say get hes full attention on me?or when I walk by what to say? because when we be in church he act like he so into hes homeygirls,but the good thing is I had on this black dress last sunday so the good thing is he dont fully ignore me he be always constantly glancin or looking over at me before I got in my truck to leave he gave me a long glance an I just smirked an went bout my binsness. so lastly um I was thinkin should I wear something cute again like a classy but hot dress an then say something to him? any advice how sholud I play this situation? or when hes constanly glancin me what should I say or how should I react to him looking at me?

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Auma and Aput, my bearded dragons!! Answered by carjon011208 on Jul 23, 2008, 06:12AM
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I think you should call him up and invite him over, dont be afraid to start it yourself, then you give him the hints, dress nicely, flirt, kiss him, and really start to get into it, if he wants it hell act on the impulse if you give him the chance.

Answered by angelfire2708 on Jul 23, 2008, 07:19AM
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You dont even act like boyfriend/girlfriend. How can you take something to the next level when he barely even talks to you? If you think that being "physical" with him is going to make him act differently towards you, you are sadly mistaken.

Here are some things you have said in your past questions: (maybe you need to reread them)
1. We consider ourselves boyfriend/girlfriend because we agree together that we is like talking on that level.
2. He so up and down and whenever I do cal him he make up a excuse like hell call me and never call me back. He plays games big time. And whenever I do talk to him on the phone with him um I ask him is he okay and he snaps.
3. He has a lot of homeygirls.like the hoodrat type ghetto girls. And since we never really been out on a date, like spend time with each or get together type thing.
4. I look forward to seeing him on sundays at church...he will rather go sit by his homegirls and laugh and act like his all lovey-dovey.
5. for example I be like hey babe you are welcome to sit with me and my folks and he will have a fit and say no you stay over there with your folkz.
6. if im standing on church grounds talking to him hell be so rude and disrepectful and call one of his homegirls over where we at and start talking to them and he walks away talking to his homeygirl and leave me standing there hangin.
7. I notice he being had a new cell-number and do ya think I have it nope...
8. now im so drained and stuck and hes about to lose me because he aint acting right.
9. This situation im in is unhealthy. Its like I dont know what to expect from him.
Theres TONS more, but I'm sure you get the idea.

You need to understand what a relationship is, because this isnt even close! Giving into him sexually will be a HUGE mistake! This disrespectful "jerk" doesnt even like you, let alone act like a boyfriend. He will only be using you.

**You may believe that this will show him how much you are willing to sacrifice for him in order to please him or 'keep' him, but it will only communicate how desperate you are and how frightened you are of losing the relationship**

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