My x girlfriend

I was with this girl for 2 and a half years. I eventually pushed her out of my life and now I want her back so bad it hurts. I cant stop thinking about her every day. When we were together she was always asking about marriage and stuff of that sort. She knew she wanted to marry me then. I just wasnt sure and we ended up splitting up. Now that we have been apart for a few months I know that she is the one that I want to spend the rest of my life with. We have talked and even seen each other recently. She admits that she still loves me, and she misses me. She also said that we cant be together because it didnt work then so it wont now. I know that I am ready to be with her, ill put everything I have into it!! She is sort of seeing a guy she works with, but I can tell she isnt all that into him. He is just someone to pass the time. I need to get her back...any advice?

Sorry buddy I know exactley what your going threw and sorry to say it's not going to get easier or better anytime soon, you must understand you've broken her down when you rejected her and although you can and will do everything for her, she's not ready.

She has to come to terms with it and you've givin her more power cause now she can see this other guy and know that you'll always be her fall back guy..do you want to be a fall back guy ?

You need to let her go and she needs to see for herself that the grass isn't greener on the other side, which could take a couple of months or even years, the thing is you can't control her. If you love her let her go, if she loves you she'll come back. But for now the best thing to do is fade her out of your life...don't phone,sms,email nothing I gurantee you in 4 weeks you'll hear from her, cause she's going to be wondering what the hell are you doing ??!!

Just bite the bullet and stick it out...

Sean

well you messed up big time and big way. now be a man and get her back and make it up to her in a big way.

Yes, I have some advice for you. You will have her back maybe but only if you move on with your life. The more you run after her the more she will reject you. Try to be cool, don't contact her, and if she really wants you back SHE will come for you. You are only messing the things now, so take my advice. In the worst case, move on! Don't be so needy, women don't like that in a man. You cannot do anything now and NOTHING is the right thing to do about her. And trust me, it might really work!