What to do if i found a clip of my wife having sex online?

I posted a question telling that my wifes stares at other men , now I found a mobile mms. In that mms I found my wife having sex with another man and is taken by another person ,I am really worried I asked her ,but she refuses , she says she dont know....

and cries. But she accepts that before marriage she had some experiences .so I think It was taken by some one closer to her.But I am worried of this after seeing her with 2 men . what should I do please help. I think of suicide . please help me ,advice pls.

Please dont kill yourself.. you dont understand how you need to deal with this. Now i'm sorry that you found these things but do you trust your wife??? Why would she be with you if it was no in fact that she loved you??? She wouldn't be with anyother men if she loved you. Beleive me I may be young but I know My boyfriend and I are in love. The only thing you can do.. is stay with her or leave her. Stay if you both love eachother because nothing can unbreak the bond of love but.. leave if you dont no matter HOW much it hurts. If she's cheating on you it's not your problem it's hers. She can't seem to understand that death do us part.. and yes.. leaving her will prolly make you feel like a part of you died if you still love her. All I can say is good luck and that I hope it all works out.
-Erin

If you have got a good lover wife than it is better to enjoy her company than step out from your life. If you were not accusing and offensive you could learn that why and how she did that you think she did. There may by many reasons and circumstances.
Plus, I think that that type of mms you mention is not so good quality that you could be 100% sure that the lady is your wife. Even if she did, the circumstances may be interesting for you. In the western life many wifes has 3some before or after her marriage, and their men rarely kill themself b/c of this. Only the ill husbands do this. Healthy husbands rather wants to repeat the 3some with the wife, b/c this is the best consolation for this emotional problem.

Sorry bubux007, but not every male on the face of this earth wants to share THEIR wives!

Why would you want to kill yourself because of something your wife did?

Dear angelfire2708, we are talking about a fact what already happened (if happened, I am shure about it) without the knowing of the husband. I did not advice to share his wife with other man, I just noticed that some men just like it. So if that is possible, then there is no so tragical situation that the husband has to kill himself, or despair, or else. What is happened that is happened, and there are even a good optics to look at it. It depends on us what optics we choose. His wife was crying, so she was suffering, in this situtaion the best is that if they console each other. My advice aimed this consolation, how they may reshape all the story. From the unbearable to the acceptable, or even to the funny.

Is she keeping away from you physically? Are you being deprived of your conjugal rights? If you don't approach even for a week or 2,whether she takes any initiative to be physically intimate.(25% of females do suffer from Hypoactive Sexual Arousal Deficit syndrome) If she does not deprive you of your Sexual rights, Do not bother! There are many females who deprive their Husbands of even Normal sexual pleasures. Think if you would have met such female,without any Libido. In that case also you might have thought of committing Suicide.She might be loyal to you after your marriage.

love is immortal,love can change everything,u 1st decide you r a true lover or not!if not then leave your wife,if really you love her then forgive her give her lots of love that one day she'll realize her fault I'm sure she'll be urs 4ever,my frnd dont wory just love her!

1st thing it is wrong Ask your wife why this happen she donot love to u. give confidance him accept the same.
Infuture if she doing such type of mistke then donot give any choice.

IF THAT WAS PAST FORGIVE HER YOU TOO HAVE DONE OR HAVE FANTASY IF IT STILL CONTINUES DIVORCE HER . MOVE TOWARD PATH OF DEEP SELF MEDITATION YOU CANT TRUST ANY BODY OTHER THAN YOURSELF

She did it unknowingly in the tender age. Enjoy in present the fullness of her physical and mental beauty.

Pls keep quite and sue debonair blog. Keep faith on your wife and ask her for everything truth. dont break relationship

My personαl oppinion is
- Leαve her ,
you mαy lover her but in the end , your just going to get hurt .
it mαy hurt to leαve her , but it's better sooner thαn lαter .

I hope your okαy 3.

if its the past its the past leave there...as long as shes not doing anything now its ok

dude don't kill your self first off try to find a date ask her if it was before you guys were together don't get mad don't get worked up just stay calm umm and if you find out that shes cheating on you don't kill your self just move on if shes not happy with you that's her lose you don't need that man and if it was before you guys just let it go that's not your issue just try to see if theirs anymore out their and find a date of when they were posted and stuff hope it works out man xD

first of all how long ago did she do it and what the fxxk was she thinking and why the hell she did'ent tell you about this but if it turns out not to be her then you in some deep you know what pal good luck

ok first off... are you sure it was not before you guys got married? you never said when the video was taken, you need to ask her that. and if it was after you guys were married you need to divorce her cause if she really truly loved you and cared about you she would never do something like that

what were you doing watching that kind of stuff on the internet for?

Wow. you cant be mad at her for being in a video if you found it cause you planed on watching videos of other people! you were both wrong there! Gosh.

SO WHAT!!! SHE CAN ONLY DISRESPECT YOU AS MUCH AS YOU ALLOW HER.IF I SAID DIVORICE HER YOU WOULD'NT,SO I WO'NT SAY THAT.AND IF IT'S ON LINE THAT MEANS SHE LIKES AN AUDIENCE.WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS BEAT HET TO THE BANK AND CLEAR OUT YOUR BANK ACCOUNT.IF SHE HAS ALL THE MONEY THEN GET A LAWYER( AND DO'NT BE DUMB AND TELL HER) AND DOWNLOAD HER WEBSIGHT.IF THE HOUSE IS IN YOU HER NAME YOU HAVE KIDS TOGETHER THEN DOWNLOAD HER SEXCAPADE ON A CD AND TAKE IT TO A JUDGE REQUEST A NO-CONTACT ORDER AND HAVE THE JUDGE LOOK AT THE TAPE.bECAUSE YOU DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH ( IF you HAVE KIDS) YOUR KIDS HAVE BEEN EXPOSED TO. BUT I GARRUNTEE you WON'T TAKE MY ADVICE. YOU HAVE NO CONTROL OVER WHAT A PERSON SAYS OR DOES BUT YOU HAVE TOTAL CONTROL OF HOW YOU REACT TO WHAT THEY DO!!!

First and foremsot there is a breach of trust here. If something happen in the past you can talk about it and move on. Marriage is based on trust, so how can any husband begin again to put trust in his wife after this. Are there any more surprises waiting? Can you take more? Whenever there is hurt, there is anger. Forgiving someone is not a gift to them, it is freeing yourself of that anger. Life goes on brother, but it don't have to be with someone you can't trust.