My wife's affair

I caught my wife cheating on me with another man about a year ago in which she said that the affair had ended. Well my wife had a baby about 2 months ago and it is half black and we are both white. What should I do, I am having trouble coping with this.

My advice is to try not to hang it over her head. Whoever the man was before it doesnt matter because your her man now and your the father in the child's life now. So start worrying about now and try not to worry about then. Its going to take alotta man power to move on and accept that there was som1 before you but try.

I would certainly check the genetic evidence that I am the father, then, if yes I am, I think I would forget the cheating story.

I would find out if the child is yours. If the child is yours, and you are not happy with the marrage, just remember you can still be a great father even without being married to your wife. If you are not happy with the marrage leave because you will always have that grudge against her, and their will not be trust in the marrage knowing that she may cheat again.

I may be way too late, but here is my advice:

Get a divorce. She is a tramp who is getting exactly what she deserves. Get a DNA test to prove that the baby is not yours so she can't get you for child support.

Make sure the judge knows that she cheated on you and that the baby is not yours. Maybe you'll get out of paying alimony as well.