My wife had an affair with black men

My wife and I work together and she had an affair with 3 black men from work. It has gotten around work and it has become not only difficult to deal with at home, but also at work. I wife and I have been married for 7 years and she is very apologetic and feels terrible about the position she has put me in. How can I get past this?

if you love her a lot, and she loves you as much as you love her,...then stay together. Make sure she proves how sorry she is. If she already does...maybe you ARE meant to be

what? 3 men? this is terrible. You dont deserve this, maybe you should leave her or have a break for a while to let her know how much she has hurt and humiliated you. It was be so hard aswell since that you two work together but this is very wrong. 7 years who knows how many other times she has done it to you with out you knowing.

why do you feel the need to mention that they were black? thats irrevelant. but yea forgive her,sh*t happens.

*akira

no..no no . dont forgive, no. yes sh*t happens BUT sh*t like that.. thats pretty messed up,,, for seven years, who knows how many guys she has cheated on you with. this is coming from a teenager.. but youre pretty stupid if you forgive.. cause if you do.. youre just humilating yourself. and why did you mention that theyre black., just her cheating on other is all we needed.

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