What can I do if my fiancee cheated?

what do I do? what can I do? I love her to bits so much and she knows this and im am having trouble getting over what she did to me. I have tryd so hard to make this still work but I have thoughts about it all the time and yet I still dont want to lose her! what is there I can do and what happens if I just cant trust her no more in still saying I want her!

hmmm

It's really up to you. I have never been in the situation but loyalty is sooo important to me. I don't think I would be able to go back to someone that broke that trust. I guess the best thing is to sit down and talk. Make your worry well-known and simple. Give consequences to actions. If she can't stay loyal, let her know you couldn't commit to someone who couldn't commit to you. But if she is willing to work it out, trust her. I wish I could tell you everything is certain, but I can't. You just have to work it out and see what happens.
Good Luck
~Jennifer

been there done that and I feel like she does not care even when she says she does and that she wont do it again... how can I believe that after it has gone this far it really does suck!
ever since it has happen we have been totally different people in our relationship we have and this is going back 4-5 months I feel so much for her crazy like but I dont feel it back

You can't turn a hoe into a housewife. Hoes don't act right. Dr Dre said this, and he's 100% right. Kick her to the curb. She doesn't deserve you. She obviously doesn't give a flying f-ck about you, or else she wouldn't have banged some other dude. Just move on dude, trust me. It's happened to me too.

Do not deal with the question. If the time you spend together is great, and you are satisfied, then there is no reason to feel that bad what you feel now. Yes, she is an adventurous type girl, but she makes you also happy and satisfied. Many people need some side affair besides the stable relationship. You can live a long and happy life with this girl. And you will also have some freedom in the relationship.

If you have no trust, you have no relationship! Stay with a cheater, cheat yourself.
Why shouldn't you stay with someone who cheats on you? If it happens once, it will happen again. If you stay with man or woman who has cheated on you, you've essentially taught them that they can sleep with somebody else and you'll take them back. Even if you manage to get past the lies, and the heartache, a cloud will always hang over your relationship. You'll never truly feel cherished, or completely loved. Why torture yourself with feelings of self-doubt and insecurity?