My new boyfriend cums too early

I#039;m dating this guy and before me he was a virgin. I thought at first that his minute long ways was just because he was new at it, but now its been over a month and there#039;s only been a couple times that he#039;s lasted over 2 minutes. Is this...

normal? Is there something I can do to change this?

don#039;t fret.... things take time to adjust... and I know that you would think that after a month of adjusting that it would be all straight but some people are different than others. maybe instead of you 2 just jumping in to it take the extra time. don#039;t let him get to excited and make sure he#039;s not nervous and over anxious because if he is that will deffinetly affect the situation... just take your time and try forplay maybe. Also be sure to remind him that it#039;s supposed to be somthing that you both enjoy and that it#039;s takes a little longer for woman to enjoy it as much as he obviously is. hope this helps

Give him head before sex. You sound like you#039;re both young enough that he#039;d have more than one bullet in the gun, so to speak. Most men last much longer on round 2.

Also, he is nervous since this is new to him and might get performance anxiety if you focus on his quot;minutemanquot; issue too much.

This is completely normal! Don#039;t fret I am here for you because I#039;ve been there, done that! My guy is the best lover ever now! 3 ways to help your situation:
1) Have him masterbate 1 hour before you are going to have sex. This will release swimmers that are all too anxious to get out. The patient ones will be left behind.
2) There are condoms with numbing stuff in them (I recommend Durex not Trogen because Trogen is too strong). I think they are called extended pleasure. Have him put it on and WAIT A FEW MINUTES. Don#039;t go into it right away. Let the stuff soak in first (it only takes about a minute or so).
3) Have him start to pleasure you to the point of bursting. Just when you are about to ... you know he can enter and you can have one together!

Have LOADS of fun! I promise one of the three WILL work! GOOD LUCK!

I can honestly say I know what you are talking about, I use to date a guy back when I was 18 (now 20)...and he#039;d last one second amp; go.

It wasn#039;t that he was new to it, cause he had been with 3 or 4 people...but it was due to masturbating TOOO MUCH....

~Heather~

I would add to the previous advice to start with oral sex and without pressure bring him back to arousal within a few minutes and give it a go... A good order of things is: you oral on him to ejaculation: him oral on you until you cum and or you both are aroused enough: then intercourse.

I used to date someone like that but the first timew dont count it but in the same night do it again he should last longer mine did lol

I used to date someone like that but the first timew dont count it but in the same night do it again he should last longer mine did lol

I experience the same thing with my husband. He just C*%# way to fast! While I'm on top, whether reverse or not, I move around for 20-30 seconds and I don't even realize he's finished, but I usually feel his thigh underneath me twitching and I know he's done...It can be a bit frustrating, especially because he's asleep right after. I don't want to make him feel bad, poor guy, but something has to improve. He wasn't always like this when I first met him, but it was gotten worse. What can I do?