How to deal with an irritating mum?

My mum lives as though she is not really part of the family. She spends most her time with her friends and when she's not is always talking about them. About people we don't know. She doesn't have to do any house work or cook and is generally very critical about people. My dad thinks the world of her and lets her do whatever she wants. Her relatives completely take advantage of my dad's hospitality and kindness and have fleeced him dry financially without being grateful about it.

kill her

Aw c'mon. I don't think my dad will be very happy about that!

Aw, c'mon I don't think my dad will be very happy about that. thks for the advise though!

Dear unstuck,

What a Mess. I can see why you would be irritated at her.

My best advie would be that the three of you gettoher her and talk this thing out. Present your case and let them know how you are feeling..you'll find out how they are feeling about it too..who knows you may be the only on eunhappy about it ( with good reason mind you) and they might now have seen it your way too...she may not think she is doing this we don't know that though...Talk it out and see where you end up.
Best of Luck to you.

P.S. Let your Dad know this at the least.

I think you need to have a talk with all your family... your family needs cousling and a lot of WORK!!!

rofl!!!

Hey maxypoo, what's rofl mean?

Roll On Floor Laughing!!!

I don't understand, what do you find so funny about it?