My mother passed away

So how do you get passed being sad its only been a week yet I cant stop the guilt or the crying how can I know that she knew I loved her even though we didnt always get along, how do I know she is in heaven and watching over us how do I move away from...

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Give it time. A week won't get you over such a big loss.
I still get upset about my grandad and he died last september.
Give yourself time and don't rush yourself into feeling better.

It is ok to be sad and its actually normal...I cant imagine the pain u're going through..however I can give you the best advice I can. If its gotten to the point where u're just constantly thinking of guilt, I think the best thing...or wait what I would do is...sit down for a minute and write any and everything I've ever wanted to say to her...just to relieve some of that stress, then I'd go outside to a place we've shared before and I'd bury that note. I feel that way.. because, if you think about it she's now part of our earth in a good way of course and somewhere in this life time or maybe the next life time God will some how bring to her attention those very words you as her child has written in hopes to mend the negativity you all had toward one another... how ever I feel your mother loved you to death and she will always and forever know whats on your heart...so keep your head up and just be there for your siblings if you have any because right now what everyone needs is someone strong to show them the way...I hope I've answered your question

 
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huny I am so so sory.I've been trying 2funmail you but it wont wrk. you loved her so much that was always so obvious in what you said,and trust me-she knew that too.
you loved her even when she didnt deserve your love,stood by her even though she rejected you by her actions,showd forgivenes even when you were wronged.I think you were so wonderful too her.I have such a messed up family aswel..I realy hope I can show the love uv shnwed-because I think its amazing.
you did everything you could,you have no reason to feal guity hun.she in peace now,and one day ul b in a world where the two of you can get along in perfect harmony.
I think your attitude thro it all was wonderful,im sure she was so so proud of who you are.
god bless.acept you did everything you possibaly could and allow urself 2heal.
beag. xxx

I am so very sorry. I hope you can count on all of us in this site to get through such a difficult time. I don't mind fun mails if you want to let it all out and write a page long of how you feel. It helps to talk it out.
Mama K

My grandmother passed away 3 years ago and she raised me from a baby so she basically was my mom.. Im still not over it.. As far as her not knowing you loved her she does I put my grandmother through h*** and she did everything for me.. And o make it worse the night she died I chose to go to the movies with friends rather then go visit her.. It will get easier eventually but it will never go away.. untill then keep your head up and remember shes in a much better place now..

I want to say thank you to all of you I mean your perfect strangers and yet you take time out of your day to console me I have been going crazy these past few weeks they have been going by so fast it feels as if shes been gone a month not just 10 days and its so weird I moved away from my home of 17 years in california to mississippi and have felt completly alone my sister is here with her family but I get that feeling you have no idea how amazing the feeling out there when you realize your not alone and strangely enough what this has done for my spiritual beleifs I find myself wanting to go to church and beleive in something again you are all so kind to me I wish I could open my heart to others as mch as you all have for me

my god, a week! im still not past the shock of the death of my aunt, and its her 1st annivesary of death this april.You have to believe she knew you loved her! she was your mum, the person that brought you into this world. and she is in heaven, b/c all the great people are taken from us too early in our lives.

I'm extremely sorry to hear about your loss. But like everyone has said it's going to take much longer than a week to stop the grieving. Take everything one step at a time. Its difficult to know when or how you're going to get over this but one day you'll come to a point when it doesn't hurt as much as it does now.
I wish you the best of luck with this.